LGBT Ever done a threesome?

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  1. Ivan

    Ivan New Member

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    Me and my boy are planning to do one. Any things you can say about the experience? How should we go about doing it?
     
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    I've never done it but I would just say make sure both you and your partner are comfortable with the person you're going into this with.
     
  3. Ivan

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    Yes, we will discuss the "candidates", so to speak, we don't want surprises when we are together.
     
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    Priest Tango Custom User Tits

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    good luck...
     
  5. Sam Gamgee

    Sam Gamgee Every tool is a weapon if you hold it right. OT Supporter

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    communication is key!

    Make sure you both know what is and is not acceptable.
    Respect each other's boundaries during the event, even if it means stopping mid-sex if one person is not feeling it.
     
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    novo Pokey Man OT Supporter

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    they can be a lot of fun.

    they can be very awkward.
     
  7. RougeOgre

    RougeOgre FS Librarian and MOD

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    Bamin -

    There are a couple good thread in FS regarding 3-somes/sharing. If you can't find them I will be happy to PM you the links
     
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    I have been the third for some couples, its fun, but I have also watched the relationships fall apart soon after. One of them liked sharing, the other did not. Use extreme caution in entering into it or you will be setting your relationship for fail.

    Now just a bunch of single people getting a threesome (or more) is better, no worry about relationship problems.
     
  9. Ivan

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    It's not going to be a long term relationship, we both know that so we just want to have some fun. We do have a lot of communication though, so there shouldn't be any issue. In a few hours I'll see him and talk about these things some more so we are both sure of what each other expects and/or doesn't want to get from this experience.

    I can see how three single persons could work much better though.

    I'll look for some, pity about not having a sub right now to use Search. If I have any troubles I will send you a PM, thanks in advance!
     
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  11. Ivan

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    We're still looking for someone who both of us like. Maybe we are being too picky but we also want to get to know the third person a bit better before doing anything.
     
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    geniks king of the hill

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    always keep in mind of jealousy.. because that guy might be into one of you more than the other...
     
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    All acounts of threesomes I have heard = not a good thing for relationships/friendships in the end.

    However, if it is just a fling thing go for it and you can never be to picky!
     

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