Ever dated a virgin?

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  1. Exiled

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    Hi, started dating this Vietnamese girl a while back, we've been together I dont know.. about a month, she really digs me, tells me she loves me.. She is 25, a virgin, came to the US when she was 19 and up until she was 24 she would go back to Vietnam for 6 months out of the year.

    I really like her, she has some very good qualities I haven't seen before but like I said, she is a virgin, a person who has never been intimate with herself or a man and she said that's just the way her culture and family has been.


    She lost her last boyfriend because of it she tells me and she says she isn't like that anymore, she wants to have sex and all of that but she's just so timid when it comes down to it.

    Ever dated anyone like that?
     
  2. Doc Love

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    Yes, I have. Do not force her into sex and keep asking her if she is sure she wants to sleep with you. I know how a virgin operates on this one, she will blame you in the end for sleeping with you, because it is your fault you forced her to, if you do push her at all, even though it is her own conscious decision. Now, onto the matter of sex, you sort of want to put up some resistance to having it with her, so the decision is 100% hers and that the social influence is no one's but on her. She's worried she will lose you, therefore she wants to sleep with you. I don't suggest sleeping with her as it will cause a lot of unwanted problems, clingy, obsessive and so on and so forth. If you really want to sleep with her, take it one moment at a time and enjoy it for what it really is, sex with a virgin.
     
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    3 boys and they all weren't anymore when i was done with em :X
     
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    Yuppy Have a seat right there....

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    never for very long. Im persuasive.
     
  5. Exiled

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    Nice, that's kind've what I thought I should do with this, thanks a lot..
     
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    Yeah, in college.

    They asked me to have sex. Do not pressure someone who still has their v card.
     
  7. jmezz

    jmezz layin in bed stretchin my pumped quads for hours

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    :ugh:
     
  8. Doc Love

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    Typical virgin behavior, what's new about that?
     
  9. Exiled

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    Yeah I know

    She says stuff like "Is this too fast?"


    I dont know what the hell to say, I just take it like she likes me a lot I guess, see what happens.
     
  10. jmezz

    jmezz layin in bed stretchin my pumped quads for hours

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    Maybe for someone in their teens or early early 20's. This girl is 25.
     
  11. Doc Love

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    Didn't read the age. I'm with you on this one then. :ugh:
     
  12. jmezz

    jmezz layin in bed stretchin my pumped quads for hours

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    That's when you say something like "I'm flattered that you might feel that way, but let's take it slow and really get to know each other before we say those words." Then you can go on to say that you take 'I love you' very seriously, and feel that too many people throw it around nowadays, and that when you say it you want to mean it with everything you have.

    Chances are that will make her melt inside.
     
  13. Exiled

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    :x:

    Good idea, she just sprung it on me lastnight, i'll mention this tonight if I see her it's been bugging me...

    I dont know if I want to get into a relationship with this girl to deep because

    1.) She's never dated an american
    2.) Her english isn't the best but hasn't been a big deal but still, she don't get some of the shit I say and I have to explain it to her.


    I like her, she's a gorgeous woman, 110 pounds... just gorgeous.. and she's loyal, havent dated any guy in like 3 years... I just love some of the qualities she has..

    She has her own house, lives alone... and is a very loyal gal who is one of those wholesome people I dont see too often.. doesn't smoke, drink... anything... very pure person I guess
     
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  15. Exiled

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    I understand that, which I will do...

    She's coming over to my place and is going to stay the night on Thanksgiving, im going to cook for her, and I think i'll explain everything to her I can.
     
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    Within a month she said she loved you? Run.
     
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