Discussion in 'Vaginarium' started by deznutz, May 10, 2005.
Both care about...both have feelings for? bad situation....
I've been with a girl who was torn between 2 guys. it ate at me night and day that she'd choose the other guy over me, even though she and I were actually dating.
sort yourself out before dating either of them.
pretend you have a gun to your head and you have to make a decision. pick a girl. now, choose the other one.
Hey, choose the one that you think will be most loyal to you (the one that hasn't had too many previous relationships) and pick her if both are really equal in your eyes.
Otherwise, do the right thing and don't choose either of them. Let time pass and eventually one of them will get hooked up if they don't want to wait for you. Choose the one that can wait the longest
i think i picked the right one....
flip a coin
Sort your shit out then roll
my ex-bf was once in that situation. torn between me and the girl he dated right before me. lost my virginity to him and everything. then i got a phone in the middle of the night from him crying that he needed me to go over there. i went and i held him as he cried about not knowing what to do. he ended up choosing the other girl, and i never looked at men quite the same...
that was 2 years ago, and i havent been in a relationsip since
unfortunately girls always feel close to the guy that takes their virginity.
yep, and now i dont get emotionally attached. i have put this wall up that i dont let anyone past. sometimes it sucks because i would like to be emotionally involved, but the wall is my defense mechanism. hearts dont get broken if they arent exposed...
i've been in this situation too many times.. it sucks a lot. it can be an extremely sensitive situation, especially if both girls share feelings for you (especially if said girls happen to be best friends ).
figure out which one you connect with the most, and share mutual goals in terms of a relationship.