Etiquette for grinding?

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  1. Fox800

    Fox800 Fear Boner OT Supporter

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    I realize that the title of this post doesn't really make sense. If you go to a bar or club and a ton of people are dancing, what criteria do you use/what do you look for before you go up and start grinding on a random girl? I was at a club last night and the place was packed to maximum capacity. For the life of me, I could not get a girl to smile at me.

    I was projecting good posture, had good body language, was making strong eye contact and smiling when I saw a girl I liked (and there were PLENTY) but I couldn't get a girl to smile back if my life depended on it. They'd look me in the eye then divert their eyes after about 1 sec. I'm not a bad looking guy but I felt absolutely ridiculous.

    I don't want to go up to some girl while she's facing the other way and just start grinding on her - I've seen that happen before and the girl will turn around, look at the guy, give a "no thanks" and walk off or push him away...

    Thoughts/comments?
     
  2. purplebeast

    purplebeast The depths of hell and endless torture await all h

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    It seems odd no one made eye contact. Thats usually how I know who I can and cannot aproach. You sure u aint creepy?
     
  3. jonno

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    i rarely dance at clubs with random chicks. who gives a shit about 'grinding'.. 95% of the time girls at clubs are not ones you want to meet.
     
  4. incubimmer

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    i wont even dance unless they come up to me...but then again, i dont look to dance anyway.
     
  5. Fox800

    Fox800 Fear Boner OT Supporter

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    Well when you go to a club with 1-2 of your guy friends and the place is loud and crowded as hell, and there are hot sluts left and right, that becomes your primary objective. :hsd:
     
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    Fox800 Fear Boner OT Supporter

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    :rofl: yes sir, I'm sure I'm not creepy and didn't have something wierd on my clothes/face. :fawk:

    And the problem wasn't making eye contact, it was that the damn bitches would never crack a smile or give me a look after I did the same.
     
  7. Midgetized

    Midgetized Don't mess with Douche Cat

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    They may have had bfs or were just there to hang out with their friends and not hook up with any guys :dunno:
     
  8. alex__

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    Maybe your not going to the right clubs... i can say that at some places, you have to have a certain look, that people will judge you instantly on.

    I personally dress pretty casual and neat. but nothing metro. All the clubs i used to go to were filled with metro ppl that had ripped jeans, paint on the t-shirts, and $150 style cuts. They got girls even if they were the ugliest fucks.

    In a crowed, darkened and loud place, usually this is what people will make their impression of you.

    Im sure your not ugly, but maybe your not going to the right places, and i found you get more level headed people at less trendy bars anyway...

    gud luck
     
  9. Improvolone

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    Ripped jeans and paint on the shirt is a look of metrosexuals?
    Maybe it wasn't your night.
     
  10. V!

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    Just go out on the dance floor and find one, grab her and start dancing away, unless you are ugly, she'll go for it
     

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