Ethics of them having a SO

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  1. Leftychang

    Leftychang OT Supporter

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    So I found out a girl ive been with has a boyfriend!!! i didnt know until last night at 2am when we're sleeping and she gets a crazy phone call!! I could here him shouting through the phone looking for her ...OMG! lol what a way to find out.

    now i had no idea until now and i wonder what i should do. i used to think it was wrong to try and homewreck ... ( ... like how would you like it if someone did it to you) But now I think my view is changing. If the girl likes the guy, then she should be with him, and no one should be able to break them up, and if they can be broken up - then i guess they just werent meant to be.

    just wondering what the consensus is. i think its pretty terrible, but is that just the nature of the beast? all is fair in love and war? or is there such a thing as boundaries and respect for others?
     
  2. She did it to him, she'll do it to you. That says a lot about her integrity.
     
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    How old are you? How serious is their relationship?

    Either way, usually idea to get deeply involved.
     
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    Midgetized Don't mess with Douche Cat

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    Personally I don't think it's your problem unless you are friends with the guy. If she's not cheating with you then she'd be doing it with someone else. The only thing you might need to worry about is the guy getting really pissed if he found out and trying to hurt you. He should be thanking you though for showing him what a worthless whore of a gf he has though.
     
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    Midgetized is smart.
     
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    Drifter87 Yippi-kay-ay, Motherfucker

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  9. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Yeah, good idea....fight for the girl who is obviously cheating on her boyfriend with you. She sounds like a real catch.
     
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    All that.
     
  11. Leftychang

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    lol so i dont mean to sound super shallow, but she is pretty hot. id say a 9+ and hey why dont i enjoy it while it lasts.

    i hope i dont walk home to a keyed car or a raging ex.
     
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    I wouldn't do it simply because I'm beautiful and the last thing I need is some dude I've never seen before bashing my face in while I'm out conducting my daily business.
     
  13. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    :uh: Silly me! I forgot that guys lose all integrity and common sense when the girl is a 9+
     
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    I'm prejudiced against hot women for this very reason.

    Likely, she has had everything she desires handed to her because of her physical attractiveness, and likely has not had to develop herself very much.
     
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    Midgetized +1

    If you look at this the right way, everyone wins.

    You win because you got sex AND you found out info about her
    The guy wins because he has all the info he needs to break it off with her and start earlier on the next day of his life
    She wins because she was obviously doing what she wanted to

    oh wait the guy didnt know. but you're right, this is the nature of the beast. we don't all have the integrity to break up THEN seek out a new partner, it usually happens the other way around
     
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    You may not want to sound shallow but that's exactly how it comes across. GG dude, you're really moving ahead in the world.

    IBHolyShitWomenSuckCuzSheCheatedOnMeWTFBBQ
     
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    100% agree
     
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    you tell her to GTFO
     
  19. Leftychang

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    yea its good that there are people who look at things objectively. the girl has to be nuts, or at least not a nice thoughtful girl to pull this kind of shit. it is pretty messed up she had a bf and didnt even tell me LOL

    and yes, it is totally much harder when you fall for the girl and she is really attractive ... a true test to your integrity ... which i have failed ... sigh

    im going to see where this goes though .... always keeping in the back of my mind this is one twisted girl
     
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    proven time and time again.
     
  21. nish81

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    Think through her good looks and your dick's desire for sex with her.

    She is a cheater by nature; leopards don't change their spots. Fuck this 'they weren't meant to be' shit, lose her and find a new one.
     
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    Word. If 'they weren't meant to be' then why doesn't she break up with him? Is she too dumb to realize it, is she cripplingly insecure, or is she just a selfish bitch with no integrity? And which of those are you most interested in dating?
     
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    What you don't realize is the toll this will take on you and your self esteem.
     
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    way i c it if she liked him shed be with him so as sad as it is id stick with her
     
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    get tested...
     

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