Escorts?

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  1. bimmer318

    bimmer318 I'm out of applesauce

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    Did anyone lose their virginity to an escort?...:o

    A year ago I'd never consider this. I always thought it would be dumb as hell to pay for sex and I'd just regret it down the road. I had the same attitude towards drugs, like pot for example. I thought I'd never pay for it and a month ago I got offered some and it was pretty fun... but then I don't think I'll be doing any more anytime soon.

    Is sex any similar? I figure I'll just fork out some $200 for a change instead of looking at porn all weekend.. even though i don't work right now, money is really not an issue. I do have some cash lying around and I can't think of anything else I need.

    I just hope I don't regret it down the road :hsd:

    ps. I'm 22
     
  2. Kev07

    Kev07 New Member

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    Why not just go around asking every girl you see if they want to fuck?
     
  3. bimmer318

    bimmer318 I'm out of applesauce

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    Didn't "The Beast" or some other on here, do that, and didn't get a single girl?
     
  4. dv8

    dv8 OT Supporter

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    I'm not sure I'd recommend it for your first time, but if you put a little research into it you could have a pretty mind blowing experience.

    I would imagine my opinion is going to be looked down by most others around here, but I have no objection to the concept of prostitution. What consenting adults do to or with each other is between consenting adults.

    First up, don't get robbed and stay off the streets. The best place to do your research is TER (www.theeroticreview.com). From there you can search by city and read hundreds of reviews, get links to various photos and also have clear idea of what you might be spending. You can also avoid getting robbed.

    The bigger the city your in or close to, the better options you will have.

    If you decide to do it, don't ever admit to anyone, especially your future wife.
     
  5. Stev

    Stev Active Member

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    IDK, i think after a while id regret it.

    I lost mine to my first serious girlfriend, and i dont regret it. Knowing the first time i got laid was because i paid a whore some money.. fuck id regret that everyday.

    But then again i would NEVER see a prostitute, so its hard for me to say... So i guess if you're the kind of person that has no problems with whores, then i guess its not a problem?
     
  6. Diesel66

    Diesel66 My standards for women is like rent-a-centers stan OT Supporter

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    not an escort but damn near. Pure slut. Wasnt the best experience but it certainly helped my confidence.
     
  7. Boosh Dag

    Boosh Dag Guest

    anything iamthebeast ever said is false.
     
  8. antihero

    antihero OT Supporter

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    i guess the real question is why cant you get laid for free like everyone else?

    are you stuck on having sex with a hot girl, or can you really not even land a friendly girl who may not be the most visually appealing?
     
  9. bimmer318

    bimmer318 I'm out of applesauce

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    Thanks for the advice. Theres a good message board for Toronto that is an independent review board. I did lots of researching and there seems to be a girl thats been around for a while I suppose, But I had my mind on her.. So I think I'll go with that.
     
  10. BlackIce72

    BlackIce72 New Member

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    I personally know an escort (obviously she keeps it very secretive) and though she is super kick ass and good looking I would not want to touch her knowing some of the stories I've heard.

    Their lives are really based around lies. They lie to everyone, even close friends. It's a pretty depressing lifestyle.

    I'll be honest. I lost my virginity to my girlfriend of a couple years and at the time it meant "so much to me" and this and that. But a few years later and maybe a couple of girls later you'll eventually realize it's NOT A BIG DEAL. Now I wish I got as much experience as possible so I could get better and better and more sexually confident.

    So maybe an escort will help you out with that. All it takes is that one experience to boost your sexual confidence.
     
  11. Yahdude

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    Honestly, I think its a great idea. This coming from someone who has never had any experience with an escort or your regular whore...but for someone at your age thats still a virgin, you got A LOT of catching up to do. Fumbling around with a "real" girl thats expecting you to not only know what you're doing but also to take care of her at the same time...good luck, you're in for a bad experience. Get a hooker, get a legit amount of time with her, and make sure she understand you're a virgin.

    Honestly, I bet these chicks get off on the virgins, pay for a couple hours, you'll bust a nut in the first 10 min no question. Use the rest of the time having her help you out, learn the ropes, better off learning there with her than someone you really care about thats going to think there is something wrong with you. (you're 22, you shouldn't be a virgin)

    Next, go see a counselor and find out why you're a virgin still.

    Again, I can't stress this enough, DO NOT get stuck with one that is just looking to get you off and run. I've never dealt with them but I'm sure the majority are that way, I know you gotta talk to these women on the phone before hand...explain your situation. You're going to pay a lot of money for their service, make sure you're getting what you want out of them...they will hustle you just like anyone else.

    Ditto to the others in this thread about regret...in 10 years you wont even remember who you lost your virginity to...that shit is for women. It won't mean a single thing to you. I made the mistake of having a serious GF all the way through high school cause I thought it meant something...what a waste of time.
     
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    Incorrect. There's nothing wrong with a 22 year old virgin. Sure, most desire to get experience younger, but don't think you've got it bad because you're a virgin.

    If you go to a counselor/therapist it will ONLY make you think you have a problem! And you don't! I know a few guys your age who haven't had sex yet and they are really cool guys. They just have a tough time with girls. There's nothing wrong with that, and it's something you should approach maturely.

    Just start taking some chances. Go outside of your comfort zone. Banter a bit with girls and bust their balls in a fun way. Remember, you're having fun. No worries.

    Skip the therapist. I'll tell you why you are a virgin. You haven't had sex with a girl yet. That's why. Don't let someone lie to you and say there's something wrong. You have what it takes. Girls are lucky to meet you and have a good time!
     
  13. MattThom01

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    Keep in mind, any DECENT woman who is worth getting in a relationship with will be fine with you being a virgin. Think about it...she would be able to share all the first time experiences with you.

    If she laughs at you, or dumps you for inexperience or some shit like that...she's not worth a long term relationship.

    We all start from the same place...knowing nothing about sex.

    Also, think about this. Would an escort be caring, supportive, sensitive, and give you good feedback on what you were doing? I doubt it. She's probably going to be looking to get her money and get things over with.

    So why would you fork over your hard earned money to someone to lie to you, give you NO feedback, and be done in just a few minutes?
     
  14. evehill

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    I lost my virginity to my girlfriend @ 19. We dated for 2 years, after breaking up it was pretty fucking hard cause I experience so much new shit with her. I would have preferred to fuck some nobody, possibly not a whore however.


    I have also seen escorts before :) In Amsterdam and locally. It can be fun but you gotta get the right girl, some seem to enjoy it, others just wanna take your money fuck you and get out. If you do go for an escort I'd jerk it like 2-3 times before you meet her, so you can hold out and get all you paid for. Check out reviews, and find someone decent.
     
  15. giz

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    I would simply make more of an effort to meet and attract women. The sex will follow naturally.

    Given the right attitude and a little bit of know-how, you could go out and get laid tonight. Don't fall into the thought process that sex is impossibly hard to get.
     
  16. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    you won't regret it just don't be ashamed about it ever
     
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    Slightly off topic but is there a difference between prostitute and escort, or is it a nicer word for the same thing?
     
  18. antihero

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    pretty much the same thing. implies maybe a bit more attractive/professional/classier, but essentially the same.
     
  19. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    All I have to say is good luck when you finally meet a girl down the road who never takes you seriously when she finds out you lost your virginity to a prostitute. I get being horny, but what I don't get is reaching the point of being so desperate for sex you buy a hooker. Why not get out there and try to meet people.
     
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    All my partners need to know is that I'm not a virgin. It's not my business to ask about a past relationship and I expect the same.

    I spent the night with someone a couple nights ago and the next day she told a friend about it and when that friend tried to tell me about what she said I just replied "that's her business. not mine. Whether she had an amazing time or a terrible time happened already and I can't control it. If she wanted me to know she'd outright say it."

    Too many relationships are based on the past. Live in the present, as cheesy as it sounds.

    A house has many doors with locks for a reason. Some prevent people from coming in, some are open to move from room to room freely, and some are always locked. And every door has a purpose.
     
  21. bimmer318

    bimmer318 I'm out of applesauce

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    MattThom01,
    Any decent woman will be OK with me being a virgin? Oh really? What about when I'm 25, 28, 30? Sorry can't see it. I'd rather pay someone because I always paid when I wanted things.

    I really can't see anything wrong with it. You pay for a big screen TV, you pay for a fancy car, but I'd rather pay a girl and not drive around in my car picking up women and then going home jerking off to porno on my big screen tv.

    iwishyouwerebeer,
    I'm sorry you don't understand that some people have something called self esteem issues and trouble connecting with people. I have one friend, went on 3 dates in my life, then (I was 20), I went to NYC with good intentions with a girl who didn't even want to kiss me, then I signed up for speed dating, paid $50 and what do I get out of it? Some girl who wanted to make out and that's it. Unfortunately this "highschooley virgin sex" ship has sailed for me long ago.

    BlackIce,
    Thanks for your understanding. You hit the nail right on the head. I like to live in the present. I'm doing lots of research and have a number of options in mind right now.. So I'm pretty confident now.
     
  22. MattThom01

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    Ok, so you have problems connecting with people or whatever. Guess what? That problem will still be there after sleeping with the hooker. Sure you'll have your first time sex out of the way...but what about wen you want to have sex again? Are you going to try to find a real girl, or just go to another hooker?

    All you will be doing by this is throwing away a few hundred dollars and avoiding your problem for a little bit.
     
  23. childofbean

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    I'm just curious, do you have a picture of yourself? I've seen you post similar threads about being a virgin at 22, and I've always wondered what you look like. :o

    I'm just saying it could all be a confidence issue. :dunno:
     
  24. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    That's great. What you dont get could fill a book.

    I'll tell you what I don't get. I don't get how some women aren't constantly having sex with lots and lots of guys with all the cock available to them. But I don't pretend I do get it and castigate them for it by using the word "prude".

    I can't hope to express to you the depth of my desire for hotties, without getting denigrated as desperate or superficial. I definitely can't express the black despair, when my social ineptitude was such a hinderance that hotties appeared to be a rare commodity, available to one or two people i knew, but probably never to me. The humiliation? That was the least of it, and ironically it is the least of it that will probably get through your head. That was the knowing about other guys... guys whose lives were so far at the other end of the poon abundance spectrum that they literally cannot comprehend why you give such a shit nor why you try so hard (or try so hard not to try so hard).
    This is a huge divide between you and men that is culturally acceptable but comes down to a form of outright misandry. How fortunate you don't even realize you are that you "don't get" it. Judge away. :madfawk:
     
  25. MattThom01

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    chill, she wasn't even directing that at you.
     

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