Erection problems out of nowhere - 21yrs

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  1. thachewster

    thachewster New Member

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    I'm 21 years old. I've been having sex since I was 16 and have never ever had a problem with getting and sustaining an erection (quite the opposite in fact!). I've had sex with 9 girls throughout those years which have been girlfriends and one night stands (not sure if this matters but just trying to give as much info as I can).

    Anyway, a month and a half ago I started dating this girl who I've known for years. We started having sex straight away because we were already comfortable with one another and trusted each other. We were having sex constantly, at one point we did it six times during the night.

    However last week we had sex one night after a drunken night out and then we lay there and after a while decided to have sex again however I just wasn't up to the task! I put it down to having too much drink, tiredness and the fact that we just had sex. So that was no big deal.

    However, the other night she stayed over and we didn't have sex because she was tired however in the morning we were both horny so decided to have sex. I put a condom on and got on top and she was stroking my dick and I asked 'Whats wrong?' and she said 'You aren't hard enough', I hadn't even really noticed but I was down to a semi so I started going down on her until it got fully hard but by the time I came back up it was completely soft.

    Now I'm struggling to sustain an erection even by watching porn or trying to arouse myself. I can basically get a 75% erection and masturbate by holding the base of my dick and I can ejaculate fine but again will go soft straight away or even if I let go of the base of my dick.

    Has anybody else ever had erection problems spring up on them like this? Is it just a phase or will it pass?

    Another thing to note is that we're currently going through a pregnancy scare - would that have some sort of effect on me subconsciously?

    Thanks for any help and sorry for the long read.

    Chewster
     
  2. Rellik

    Rellik New Member

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    i assume you dont have any medical conditions, or have been feeling sick, change in health, etc..?
     
  3. Kyoko

    Kyoko New Member

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    Are you a smoker?
     
  4. thachewster

    thachewster New Member

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    Nope 100% healthy. Had the man flu the last week maybe but about it!
     
  5. thachewster

    thachewster New Member

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    No, not a smoker at all and haven't had a drink since St Paddys day!
     
  6. Rellik

    Rellik New Member

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    see if you can get hard any easier under a warm shower
     
  7. Mugen92GS-R

    Mugen92GS-R New Member

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    Sounds mental to me. You got whiskk dick, and now you're all worried about it. Stop worrying about whether you're hard, and start getting horny as hell by touching and thinking about how sexy your woman is :kdubb:
     
  8. Zourn

    Zourn 16-bit Ninja OT Supporter

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    Had this happen to me last year, took a while but once I finally got to the point where I could just ignore it, the problem disappeared.
     
  9. Montoya

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    its all in your head
     

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