So sometime in the next year or so I plan on proposing to my BF. We have already been together two years, and I plan on being engaged atleast another year before we get 'married' (even though it is not legal/etc we can still have the ceremony/same meaning!). I am trying to think what could make a good engagement ring like thing/wedding band thing. The problem is if he wheres a ring people will ask who his wife is etc and he is not very out, and he cannot be out at work (ultra conservative christian non-profit). I was thinking maybe a bracelet, but those get caught on things easy etc. I was also thinking a really nice watch like a citizen or something. I want whatever it is to last our lifetime and I also can't get him a watch for an engagement and wedding. So, suggestions?