Easily turned off....

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  1. Guvnor

    Guvnor NYM3 and Me

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    Lately it doesnt take much for my wife to put me out of the mood. One thing that does it now is..."let me go pee quick". My dick is hard, she's right there...i wanna slide them over and go if in some part of the house or rollover on bed and get to it. Lately...almost every time she says this and I go "agh...nevermind". There are few other things that get to me as well that totally ruins it, but we'll start here.
     
  2. Ashley

    Ashley EEK!!!!

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    Are there other things going on between you two, where you aren't as happy as you were before?
     
  3. peoplescar

    peoplescar Guest

    i was thinking the same thing.
     
  4. just_another_on

    just_another_on New Member

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    Seriously, stop being such a pussy and let her take a piss.

    Or you gonna complain when she has a UTI and you can't have sex?
     
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    there's gotta be more to it then that.... right?

    my guess is you are having other issues in the RS that leads to such a minor thing to turn into a big one.
     
  6. Abomb

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    is she overweight?
     
  7. Lucky Penny

    Lucky Penny Mr. cut me some slack cause I don't wanna go back,

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    :rofl: :o :rofl: :o :rofl:

    OMG I say the same thing to my SO :eek3: :mamoru: He doesn't get that upset about it though.
     
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    chlywly Active Member

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    Sounds like she's annoying you outside of the bedroom and this is simply tipping you over the edge.
     
  9. Guvnor

    Guvnor NYM3 and Me

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    No, nothing else going on. Got a 4 month old baby now though. I am kinda odd I guess. If I am in the mood and you do something to prolong what i'm in the mood for, I'll get out of the mood and not need it. Smells and other little things bother the shit out of me.


    What's over weight?
     
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    just_another_on New Member

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    Does her current weight bother you?


    You said you have a 4 month old, did the weight she put on 'flip' a switch for ya?
     
  11. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    Overweight is over the weight you like.
     
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    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    It might be low libido overall and not her specifically.

    Do you jerk off usually?

    Stare at or fantasize about other women?
     
  13. Guvnor

    Guvnor NYM3 and Me

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    Who doesn't

    Here's the thing....She's always been a rather small girl. She packed on some prego pounds that are not 100% gone, BUT she is working out faithfully and is determined to get them off. It's gradual and slow I know. I've talked to woman that say it took atleast a year to shake the baby weight.
    Also, we're a young couple. Top self 20s.

    If this is the case....yes.
     
  14. Abomb

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    :bowdown::bowdown::bowdown::bowdown::bowdown::bowdown::bowdown::bowdown:
     
  15. Deborah

    Deborah Seeing is believing, but I don't want to know.

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    80% of women should be over weight to you then:rofl:
     
  16. Abomb

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    agreed :bigthumb:


    i spend my time in the gym so no free passes for lazy fatties.
     
  17. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    :rofl: I remember you.

    You were the guy who just a few months ago was grossed out by his pregnant wife. Now you get pissed and lose your boner because she has to take a minute to pee first?

    Yeah, I'm sensing a lot more issues here.

    Have you even tried telling her this bothers you?
     
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    Once again, beers memory >***** :rofl: :kiss:
     
  19. Abomb

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    oh yeah this is set sail for fail ... poor wife :hs:
     
  20. Guvnor

    Guvnor NYM3 and Me

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    This is why I rarely post on this forum. You fuckers remember too much. No, I dont tell her...are you crazy. I rather just deal with it my own way than to hurt her by saying she has too much weight. I am by no means at wits end here. It was just a simple inquiry.

    FTR - I was not grossed out. I was/am still attracted to her.

    Go to hell with comments like this. My relationship is far from failing.
     
  21. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    :hsugh: Well with that attitude your relationship will fail. I'm not saying to tell her her weight gain upsets you, genius. I'm saying have you brought up with her that you lose a lot of your sexual intensity when she breaks to pee?
     
  22. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    So if u stare at other ladies it is not ur libido.

    I dunno man :-/

    I think it is just the weight
     
  23. Deborah

    Deborah Seeing is believing, but I don't want to know.

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    well, many girls go to the gym, but the ribs just can't show...;)

    this might not be set for fail..but still poor wife. You know, one thing you can do is trying to actually let things turn you on. I have done that before...when I didn't like what was happening I tried in my mind to change it to a turn on situation rather than a turn off, but I'm weird:o
     
  24. Guvnor

    Guvnor NYM3 and Me

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    Listen, Einstein. My relationship is far from failure. We sex several times a week...with a new baby. I just mentioned something that bothers me and turns me off. Mostly cause I know i'm about to bury my whole face in the pie and dont wanna imagine drinking piss. There you have it, so refrain from talk about things failing. Not close.

    :rofl: dear God!

    Could be. Hell, if you met a girl at possible model stature and now....it takes some getting used to....dont care who you are.
     
  25. Lucky Penny

    Lucky Penny Mr. cut me some slack cause I don't wanna go back,

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    No kidding :(

    :rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl:

    Apparently not. Especially with all the hostility there Eff U :hsugh:
     

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