Im gonna get my ear pierced tomorrow. I want to stretch it so I can get like a 4-6guage plug. How do I go about doing this, Ive had mixed opinions on how to do it. some people say to use one of them acrylic pointy spick things, others say to use a golf tee, while others say to hang fishing weights off the earring. which is the best way, and how long should I wait from getting it pierced to beginning to stretch it?