Now i thought i really liked this girl. she was cool, and lived close to me, and it was great for three months. Starting january 24th i start getting comments from a random girl that is on my friends list. nothing special, jus tlike a "<3" or something. I start sending her comments back and, she replies like instantly. so i have like 15 comments from her. nothing serious, just the plain myspace comment bullshit. my EXgirlfriend wakes me up one night via cellular, and asks "whats the deal with this girl?" i tell her that ive never met the girl, and i just talk to her online. she said "ok" then i wake up to a myspace message from the EX. stating " Hey, I seriously hope that you are being 100% honest with me about that girl, but it still kind of bugs me that she leaves you all those comments...and some of the ones you left her. I might not have even noticed it, but one of my friends asked me if I'd seen it. I hope you can see where I'm coming from, because if not, we're most likely going to have some problems. " i reply " If you want me to be completly 100% honest. I laughed when i read this. I think its funny. I dont know why. when you woke me up last night, i wanted to reply "oh yeah, thats the girl im gonna go out with if we break up." Then i sat and thought about it for a while. 1) yeah she leaves alot of comments, and i reply sometimes with a "<3" or "sweet dreams"....so what? You obviously werent listening when I told you that she is Frustrated because she really likes "tim" in rowlett, and he keeps ditching her. My whole purpose with her these last 5 days have been to make her happy again. 2) I also have never met the girl. no reason to worry." she replies " I don't know either. Im just as confused as you are. And I didn't think it was that big of a deal w/ that girl or whatever but some of my friends..friends who are usually right about these things..thought differently and one of them said to call and ask you about it. I heard what you said about her being frustrated about that guy, but i'm a girl too. I know why girls do that crap. I never thought you would cheat on me either. I didn't think you had. Its just really weird for her to comment you and stuff that much..and then for you to leave it on there. I don't go around leaving comments on other guys pages..even my friends..like the ones you did. If I get a comment that shouldn't be from anyone but you, I delete it. If you want to work this out, I'm up for it." i leave to go to the other side of the metroplex to a disc golf tournament and i return home to this message. She goes to a party, on her birthday! " Hey, I've been thinking about everything the last couple of days and I think it would be best if we ended this relationship. The religion thing is part of it, but there's more to it than that. The whole thing with the girl-that's the biggest thing right now. She left you another comment saying "sorry last night was so crazy" or something like that. Don't know what that was about, and I don't really care either. All I know is that if she knows you have a girlfriend, she shouldn't be leaving you all those comments, saying what she says. I can't be with someone I can't completely trust and right now...I don't trust that you're telling me the complete truth. And the past few weeks you've just seemed really preoccupied. Even on the phone and online. I know why now..or I have an idea. I'm sorry, but I can't deal with stuff like this, and I'm not going to. I know you say you would never cheat, and like I said, I never thought you would either. Even if you don't see it as "cheating" it's still going on..and it shouldn't be. I would have called and told you all of this but I left my phone at home, and I'm at someone's house and I needed to get all of this out....now." i laugh my ass off, call some friends to joke about it, and reply with this " Suit yourself. FYI. I really like you, and it doesnt change overnight. I guess I can deal. You want the complete truth!?!! you have absolutely everything. If you think she shouldnt of left me those messages, seems like you should take that up with her. not dump the boyfriend. hell if i had a girlfriend and guys post "hey there, your hot/cute/etc." thats a fucking compliment, to know that others want what i have. damn i dont know what the deal is. This girl i met through Sarah, a girl i went to school with, and she also dated my friend blake. And technically i havent met her..... She messages me on myspace, and periodically on AIM. nothing more. oh and she comments a million times a day on EVERYONES PAGE, the girl lives on the net. Guess your "friends" didnt think to say to themselves "hey, ill check a random guys page and see if she comments the same towards them" because she does. especially if there her top 8, which im not even on. I feel sorry for the guys in your future that cant get myspace comments. thats what you had a problem with, myspace comments. let that soak it. but its no biggy. peace girl" and to really set it off i reply again with this " Oh and i just sent mae my number, maybe ill get a call? haha one can only hope" what the fuck, what a lame reason to leave someone. I dont need that, anyone who would leave someone over myspace. *****Cliffs***** EX girlfriend dumped me because a hot chick started leaving me messages, and she couldnt deal with that.