'dumpable offenses'

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  1. demosnat

    demosnat New Member

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    What are they?

    for me:

    -cheating
    -being depressed/crappy all of the time
    -coming at me physically in any way



    Go
     
  2. Diesel66

    Diesel66 My standards for women is like rent-a-centers stan OT Supporter

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    hard drug use, weed more then once in awhile, alcoholic.
    cheating
    refusal of anything but vanilla
    joins OT :mamoru:
     
  3. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Didn't we have this thread not too long ago? Or was it something similar? I really can't remember but I feel like I've written this out *scratches head*
     
  4. lou kim

    lou kim New Member

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    cheating, physical abuse, mental abuse to a certain extent, drug/substance abuse w/ refusal to get help.
     
  5. lauren

    lauren Active Member

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    just not feeling the same way about the relationship/person anymore? :dunno:


    i've stayed with the cheater, the emotionally abusive and the deadbeat, but dumped a guy cause i didn't know what to get him for christmas....
     
  6. jmezz

    jmezz layin in bed stretchin my pumped quads for hours

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    wat
     
  7. lauren

    lauren Active Member

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    i was bored with him, and there wasn't any point to that relationship. that was the final trigger. the point i was trying to make is 'dumpable offenses' is a silly concept....
     
  8. vodkacollins

    vodkacollins New Member

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    cheating
    hitting/shoving
    substance abuse
    not having any drive or direction
     
  9. kiri

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    - cheating
    - violence
    - saying/doing something horrible to a dear friend/family

    those are the only things that would make me leave someone in an otherwise happy relationship. obviously if i wasn't happy in the relationship i would end it, but i don't know if that counts as a "dumpable offense"
     
  10. jmezz

    jmezz layin in bed stretchin my pumped quads for hours

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    The way you worded it I got the impression that you were shopping for him for xmas one day and all of a sudden was like "um yeah i dunno what to get him, screw this, I think I'll just break up with him instead." :rofl:
     
  11. lauren

    lauren Active Member

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    it honestly kinda happened like that.....except it was coming to the realization that our relationship had no substance, no common bind and we didn't know each other.


    i got him a pink floyd cd.
     
  12. deadbody85

    deadbody85 New Member

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    You just made the point that you're a fickle woman, not that 'dumpable offenses' is a silly concept.
     
  13. Ladybug

    Ladybug Guest

    Any action that will forseeably lead to the relationship's breakdown or deteriorate my mental health.
     
  14. Bugalu

    Bugalu OT Supporter

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    -cheating
    -stalking
    -getting fat.
     
  15. lauren

    lauren Active Member

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    i'd rather see it as not keeping a dead/pointless relationship going. you'd stay in a dead relationship simply because it was the status quo? that makes little sense.


    considering i've maintained mostly long term relationships, i don't think fickle is very accurate.
     
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  16. jmezz

    jmezz layin in bed stretchin my pumped quads for hours

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    Coulda been worse, you coulda gotten him a gift certificate, or socks. :o
     
  17. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    i'd be surprised if a single action could make me fall out of love with someone.

    i can think of things that would make me stop sleeping with them, like if they contracted AIDS or used a dirty heroin needle or developed some kind of habit that created serious dangers to my well-being.

    i'm not sure that's what you are asking
     
  18. lauren

    lauren Active Member

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    i get my bf socks all the time. :mamoru:
     
  19. JordanClarkson

    JordanClarkson OT Supporter

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    I wouldn't dump someone for a single action alone. It's got to be something that's been going on for awhile.
     
  20. Yuppy

    Yuppy Have a seat right there....

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    stopping with the oral and thinking its ok
     
  21. jmezz

    jmezz layin in bed stretchin my pumped quads for hours

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    Cmon. :rofl:
     
  22. lauren

    lauren Active Member

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    i'm serious :o
     
  23. jmezz

    jmezz layin in bed stretchin my pumped quads for hours

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    Growing up I had that stereotypical aunt who, no matter what holiday it was, would always get me socks. I think she had a lifetime supply of them and sometimes they weren't even close to being my size. I used to hate opening her presents because as a kid I wanted G.I. Joes, Ninja Turtles, Tonka Trucks and cool shit like that. I didn't want socks. Socks are a horrible present.

    I warn everyone who buys me gifts for holidays that they can get me whatever the fuck they want, as long as it's not socks.
     
  24. jkiley07

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    disrespect towards friends/family
    cheating
    immaturity
    selfishness
    abusive
     
  25. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    that's funny, immaturity is something I STRONGLY prefer in people
     

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