dump him or...?

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  1. RockChick

    RockChick New Member

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    following problem:

    im from germany and my bf is canadian. we have a long distance realtionship and im back at home for like 2 months now.

    i was asking a friend of my bf if he is a good bf and today that friend told me that the bf probably had "fun" with a friend. i dunno what fun means and i dont want to know. :wtc:

    i asked the bf if this is true but didnt get any answer yet.

    the point is: he told me quite a few things like "im not gonna fuck up again" (we had some problems before... broke up, got together) "you mean the world to me", "everything i am, you have" and so on and so on! i just dont know what to do anymore... my feelings for him are still there and im gonna call him when i have money on my cell again... but at the moment, i dunno if i should dump him or just talk to him or... :wtc:
    basically he fucked up after 3 months of being together (again)... :wtc:
     
  2. Muricane

    Muricane Active Member

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    He did it before, he'll do it again.
     
  3. AmCo

    AmCo Haters goin' Hate

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    dump him and get someone local.
     
  4. chlywly

    chlywly Active Member

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    I think you already know the answer to this one.......
     
  5. Bella

    Bella New Member

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    Where do you want me baby?!
    Yeah your young get someone local that you can spend your time with
     
  6. RockChick

    RockChick New Member

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    i dont want someone local cos 1) german guys are ugly and 2) i wanna emigrate... sooo, that would be senseless.

    i just dont want it to end that way... *sigh*
     
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    well its not like canadiens are lookers either :mamoru:
     
  8. suspicious

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    Come to Sydney Australia :naughty: :wavey: :x:
     
  9. we got plenty of good lookin' Canadian men here :wiggle:
     
  10. RockChick

    RockChick New Member

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    LOL... i love australia tho... :big grin:
    and yes, i know that canadians are quite good looking... :big grin:
     
  11. naughtie

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    Ditch the loser. If you want to get out of Germany...
    Americansingles.com.
    Match.com.
    Lavalife.com.
    That's how I found my SO :)
     
  12. russd10089

    russd10089 New Member

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    Really? i've been thinking those sites don't work. I'm wanting someone that can keep up with me, yet to no avail.
     
  13. naughtie

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    "keep up with you?"

    But, yes, these sites are great. I have spoken with MANY eligible bachelors online. And I happened to find THE ONE. It only took one month, and $24.95 :)
    His two best friends used to go there, and they both found significant others (even the pimp master one who has probably had sex with more people than I will ever meet!)
    Anyway... you just gotta be more active with the winking and teasing. Eventually you will get a hit
     
  14. JordanClarkson

    JordanClarkson OT Supporter

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    i'd say stick with him. until you learn :mamoru:
     
  15. russd10089

    russd10089 New Member

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    At the time, i was thinking something (non sexual) But i've got no idea where my train of thought was.
     
  16. weakone

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    Lose him. You're young, and he's caused more problems than he's probably worth.
     
  17. naughtie

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    haha!:rofl:
     

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