"Dream Cheating"

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  1. haargerman

    haargerman ayuh.

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    So what does it mean if I have a dream that I kiss/make out/sleep with another girl? Is there some sort of pyschological phenomena behind that?

    What about if your girlfriend has told you that she has kissed/made out with another guy in her dreams? What does it all mean?

    Anyone heard of any legit studies that have been conducted on this type of stuff?
     
  2. HuskiRuski

    HuskiRuski Cardinal Fan

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    i doubt it means much at all.

    at the very most, it means you have a passing infatuation for some girl, nothing nearly as strong as the feelings you have for your GF.
     
  3. ware_ru

    ware_ru I know, I know, I'm amazing

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    are you serious. mannnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn. can we get some titties up in here to save the thread? can i get a hell yeah?
     
  4. lauren

    lauren Active Member

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    nothing? just synapses getting crossed.
     
  5. antihero

    antihero OT Supporter

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    I read one once that says that people who have sex dreams about random other people have a statistically insignificant change in conscious behavior.


    results might vary a bit if its the same person in the dreams repeatedly.
     
  6. str0bot

    str0bot New Member

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    It means you're human - welcome to the club. We all look. Touching is the problem, friend.
     
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    bummerkit New Member

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    :werd:

    Dreams shouldnt be an issue. I can almost guarantee that she has dreams like that too.

    Edit: If your relationship has problems because of dreams that either one of you has, your relationship has bigger problems than dreams.
     
  8. NCS

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    dont worry about it

    now if you daydream about it thats another story .lol
     
  9. noodle

    noodle New Member

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    seems like a normal thing to me. I wouldn't worry about it so much.
     
  10. Guz200sx

    Guz200sx The man who does more than he is paid for will soo

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    its just a dream. it means nothing.
     
  11. RedVsBlue

    RedVsBlue Penguins > *

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    wow... obviously its cheating :hsugh:
     
  12. LudaMan

    LudaMan New Member

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    Dreams are really nothing more than your brain processing information while you are asleep. I've only known one girl who thought that was cheating and honestly, she is the craziest person ive ever known.
     
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    Just are much much more than simply your brain processing information while you sleep, thats got to be the most ridiculous simple minded reductionist bullshit explanation I've ever heard, however with that being said that doesn't mean that just because you have a dream you should interpret it as is... It is metaphoric, could mean a million things, it also could simply be from anxiety/brain processing or thoughts from earlier in the day.

    Totally natural, anyhow...
     
  14. Diesel66

    Diesel66 My standards for women is like rent-a-centers stan OT Supporter

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    just wait until SHE dreams about you making out with a random girl. Nothing like that morning argument.
     
  15. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    I've fucked everyone I know in my dreams, family, males, dogs, women without nipples, and mermaids.

    Omg what does that mean
     
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    Emfuser Nuclear Moderator Super Moderator

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    I hate it when that happens. She wakes up pissed off at me for something that she had a fucking dream about. All I can think to myself is "Holy FUCK... don't fucking talk to me if you're gonna be mad about imaginary shit. :uh:"
     
  17. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    I had a dream last night that my bf admitted to hooking up with this girl. I woke up so angry! And then remembered it was not true and that girl doesn't even exist...:bigthumb:
     
  18. haargerman

    haargerman ayuh.

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    haha.

    There aren't any relationship problems regarding "dream cheating".

    We've all had these dreams, and they probably mean nothing. However, I was just hoping there would be someone in here with some sort of Pyschology background that has read some sort of study done on it. There's gotta be something out there.
     
  19. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Well it's pretty common sense. A psychologist would tell you it's your subconscious telling you there is possibly something wrong with your relationship....so you're cheating on them in your dreams where you are brave and can do anything.
     
  20. wack0

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    Activation patterns are shifting and connections are being made and unmade constantly in our brains, forming the physical basis for our minds.

    If these connections are based on emotions (which is one current theory) then yes, YOU ARE A CHEATER.
     
  21. ware_ru

    ware_ru I know, I know, I'm amazing

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    psychologists are retarded
     
  22. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    I laughed even writing it out. Sigmund Freud would've had a hilarious explanation.
     
  23. ware_ru

    ware_ru I know, I know, I'm amazing

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    wait you're a psych major. Is that ACTUALLY what a psychologist would say, or is that what you TINK a psychologist would say? Or is that exclusively what a freudian psychologist would say
     
  24. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    I was a communication major. And most psychologists would agree that dreams are our subconscious trying to tell us something.
     
  25. haargerman

    haargerman ayuh.

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    Exactly, so is it a deep-seeded issue or is it just some sort of infatuation?

    I would think that if it happens over and over it's gotta be some sort of issue of perhaps self-guilt, or on the flip side, you really aren't/don't want to be committed to your partner.

    If it happens once it may just be some sort of infatuation you have with a person.

    My girlfriend's roommate has dreams that she makes out with the boys she thinks are cute all the time (Probably more than once a month, and at that she probably doesnt admit to it every time so it might occur more often). She is also in a relationship of 2 years. She also treats this guy like shit, so perhaps she's dreaming of what she really wants, but never acts on it because she's too afraid of losing the "nice guy" who has been there for her for the past 2 years.
     

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