Double Date as first date?

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  1. RebootEnzo

    RebootEnzo New Member

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    I was thinking about asking this girl out on a date with me and my friends date. Or would this be a bad idea for a first date. I figure it would make the date more casual. I have also never been on a double date before so thought it would just be more fun in general.
     
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    tubachris85x New Member

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    For a 3rd or 4th date, I'd say this would be okay, for the 1st, I dont think so. I say this because going out on a date is usually meant to spend time with the other person, uninterupted by anyone else, especially for the first one. Your supposed to get to know the person and vice versa, and thats a little hard when you have an established couple with you guys. But thats how I feel about it
     
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    What if you work with the person and know them pretty well? Also, the people I am going to ask are not established really. Only on their 3rd date themselves.
     
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    Ah ok, well then I guess it would be okay I guess, but just make sure you have time for yourselves as some point
     
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    I think it would be okay :dunno: it could take off some of the pressure on all sides.
     
  6. Ari1979

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    i don't see why not
     
  7. ware_ru

    ware_ru I know, I know, I'm amazing

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    optimal date = you bring the girl to hang out with you in your environment where you're surrounded by people you know (aka your friends)
     
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    way too easy to fall into friendship patterns on a double date.
    not a good first impression, especially if you have to depend on others for conversation. you appear weak.

    the only exception is if you're going to a place with lots of alcohol, but that's not really a good first date unless it's micro-brewery type place or something. loud bars suck for first dates unless you know you're gonna get laid and just don't feel like spending a lot of money on HER.
     
  9. RebootEnzo

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    I don't have to depend on others for conversation.
     

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