Don't you hate that feeling?

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  1. Kortiz-DZ

    Kortiz-DZ Resident Nigerian Lipper OT Supporter

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    The feeling you have to endure after you essentially get dumped...

    God I feel like shit.

    The shitty thing is that it wasn't about one person breaking free of the other based on attraction or compatibility...

    BLAH!!! :(
     
  2. Miss Red

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    I hate saying cliche` things, but maybe its for the best.
     
  3. Kortiz-DZ

    Kortiz-DZ Resident Nigerian Lipper OT Supporter

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    It is for the best...I'm not here to say I want her back....I do, but I'm not here to say that.

    The feeling sucks, though.
     
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    I can't wait to feel it for my first time.
     
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    Its for the best, now you can find someone that will truly click with you :big grin:
     
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    Thank god for being dumped so you can find someone who really wants to be with you!
     
  7. Kortiz-DZ

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    The problem was that I couldn't be with her...

    I'm moving to Texas in a no more than 2 years from now. It is almost 95% going to happen. My folks live down there and once school is over, that is where I want to be.

    She, however, just moved back to Fort Wayne from Chicago. She's 28 and I'm 23. She lived with a guy for 5 years and finally gave up thinking about the possibility of having a family with him. One year later she's got the idea in her head that she needs to be proactive about her ability to make babies.

    I'm not going to make her move down to Texas based on the idea that I want to be close to my parents while she has to move away from hers. It makes no sense.

    If I was staying in Indiana, we wouldn't be wasting our time...we'd have a possibility of making a future together.

    As un-spiritual as I am...I still believe in fate. I think things happen for a reason. That's why I'm not so beat up about it...I'm not drowning my sorrows or anything. I just hate that feeling that you get along with knowing I'll never see her again.

    Ahh well, that's life, right?
     
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    I always try to be the one doing the dumping.
     
  9. Kortiz-DZ

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    In hindsight, she gave me every opportunity to do the dumping. I didn't want to admit it, though.
     
  10. LudaMan

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    I'm in the same spot you are man, and funny enough, I'm moving to Texas next year. Sucky feeling. :sadwavey:
     
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    Yep, I'm there right now. Best friend --> relationship conversion, so now I've lost both.

    Stay strong.
     
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    I'm still trying to get over being dumped.... it sucks, but be strong.
     

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