Well i havent had sex with my girl since Nov, because it is all my fault. I was extremely nervous and paranoid after we had sex, that she might become pregnant. She wont take the pill, cause she is scared she might get cancer since her family has a history of uterus cancer. So it came down to use just having sex with a condom. Ill admit im not man enough to raise a kid, so i dont think im man enough to have sex. So i please her every other way possible, and she seems to enjoy it very well. I enjoy sex myself, but I dont need it at all. By no means is she bad, she is great at sex, but i guess im just a abnormal guy who just enjoys other stuff besides sex like oral. She has been really pushing the issue as she needs me to have sex with her, and i dont know how to tell her that im still worried. She says she will take the pill the Emergency one if the condom breaks, but i dont know im just paronoid. Any sugesstions on this issue?