Anyone ever been in relationship where you sort of don't really know where you stand? This girl and I have been talking since about march, which was recently after I broke up with my ex. I was a little shady with this girl and she wanted a relationship but didnt know if we were going anywhere (bc of how I was being flaky), so she backed off. A bit after that, I came to my senses, fixed stuff with her and we started dating relatively shortly after. We are together now, and have been since around the beginning of July, so about a month in a half. Shes 23, I'm 25. We have yet to even have sex, but part of that rides on the fact that we see each other maybe 2 days a week, and that is never really alone time. She's honestly also the type who normally waits a while and doesn't jump into things (I heard that from mutual friends before we even started dating). Beyond that though, there are just times where I'll invite her to stay over, etc and she'd rather just sleep at home because she's more comfortable (has stomach issues, IBS kinda stuff...very painful and frequent bathroom visits sometimes). I guess I'm kind of in one of those situations where I feel like I don't 100% KNOW that she wants to put as much into as I do. I've slyly mentioned similar things and she gets really upset (sad almost, not mad) just because I would even think that at all. I feel like perhaps I'm just being a bit insecure about it all because I just want it to work well. I've never really had a relationship that 'moved slowly' before and I think it's throwing me off and making me wonder things that I probably shouldnt even think twice about. I don't think moving slow is a bad thing necessarily, I'm just really not used to it at all. Any advice?