Don't know to be happy or worried

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  1. Ozner

    Ozner Offical TSL OP Leghumper

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    Well i had sex for my first time-- no longer a virgin. Except it lasted 1hour and ten minutes before i cummed. I wasn't drunk or nothing. The girl gave me a blowjob for about 15 minutes-- gagin on my dick. We literally fucked for about 40 minutes and i didn't cum. So heres the thing wtf is wrong with me-- now she thinks that i wasen't a virgin and that she dosen't think she is the special one. So i'm screwed because i can last long. Any input is greatly appriciated. And please this is not a joke or a hoax. I ended up cummin in her but i had to like command my self to.
     
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    veonake OnT poster, OT lurker

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    I would account it to nervousness, being unsure of yourself, etc. The mind can play some crazy games down there. I say make it an excuse to "practice" more, and I bet that it is easier for you each time.
     
  3. HoodRich

    HoodRich Professional Street Nigga OT Supporter

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    i'd just tell her its not your fault she's bad in bed and to stop giving you shit about it.
     
  4. 6SpeedTA95

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    I didnt orgasm my first time...its not really a big deal, I had a major case of performance anxiety.
     
  5. Two toys

    Two toys New Member

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    the first time i ever got head i didnt cum for atleast 30 minutes .. she was about to give up when i pulled her down and busted in her throat.. its what she deserves though the bitch kept scraping me with her teeth! im not sure if it was performance anxiety or the pain of her teeth that made me last 30 minutes but whatever it was it never happened again..
     
  6. SoBrokenHearted

    SoBrokenHearted summer unfolded like a tapestry

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    If she doesn't believe you when you say she's your first, or she thinks she needs to be your first to be special, maybe you shouldn't be having sex.
     
  7. Ozner

    Ozner Offical TSL OP Leghumper

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    so tru thanks everyone for your input.
     
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    be skurrrd~!
     
  9. granto

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    just so you know, it's "came," not "cummed." :hsugh:
     
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    ATleast you got hard your first time. . I couldn't get my dick hard, even when she started sucking it. . And when I did get hard for about 4mins, that's how long the sex lasted before I went soft. . I guess I was real nervious.
     
  11. CrimsonVonDoom

    CrimsonVonDoom There Cannot be Two Skies OT Supporter

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    "yeah! she got what she deserved!" ladies and gentlemen, a future rapist.
     
  12. sipherx

    sipherx Jamesl.info

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    Dude from personal experience. My SO and I when we had sex for OUR very first time, I didnt cum for like 30-40 minutes, and she reacted the same way. Dont worry about it. It could have been your mind was worried, maybe she was to tight and it didnt feel as good as it will later on. Trust me once you guys get a position and a right feel to everything, you will be trying to figure out ways to not cum.
     
  13. sipherx

    sipherx Jamesl.info

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    I disagree, she just needs some reassurance. Having sex for some people on their first time is a really special thing, and sometimes emotions can get crazy and cause people to feel insecure or worried about the other person. I think she was just worried she let herself sleep with someone who was more experienced. When the real factor is, it was because he most likely was letting emotions get to him as well.
     
  14. veonake

    veonake OnT poster, OT lurker

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    Wtf? Bringing up a year old thread?
     
  15. sipherx

    sipherx Jamesl.info

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    Jesus christ why the fuck does that happen.
     

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