LGBT Does your mother hate you because you're gay?

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  1. JS1

    JS1 sup

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    Mine does. :wtc:
     
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    :wavey: for the last 6 months of her life
     
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    Mine used to. Then I showed her I wasn't her little boy, that I was my own person. She accepts me now. and misses me, as I am the youngest and her nest be empty.
     
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    I wouldn't say hate -- but she definitely doesn't like it.

    We don't ever really talk about it.
     
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    Priest Tango Custom User Tits

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    Mom and I were talking about battery operated boyfriends yesterday. :mamoru:
     
  8. Sam Gamgee

    Sam Gamgee Every tool is a weapon if you hold it right. OT Supporter

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    not at all.

    She didn't like it the first 6 months or so. But, she came around pretty fast once she realized that I'm still the son she knew and loved. She just knows more about me, so she can love me more fully.

    Now, after a decade of being out of the closet, she doesn't even think twice about it
     
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    Mine still doesn't know. I figure I'll just wait until it's actually a relevant topic, since I tend not to discuss any aspect of my love life with my parents, whether its about girls or guys. I doubt either of them would care, I've already made it clear that there's not a chance in hell I'm ever gonna give them any grandchildren, and I have no interest in marriage or any long term (say a year or more) relationships. With those two issues out of the way, and neither of them being religious or having any prejudice against gays, I really don't see how they could care. Might be a little surprised though just since they're so used to my ultra-manly image.

    My dad probably knows already anyway, he's a computer tech and does a ton of work on my computer for me, no doubt he's seen some traces of gay porn on there.
     
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    I'm really lucky I guess. All my family is really supportive and open about it. To be honest it was harder for me to talk to them about it then it was for them to talk to me.
     
  11. DouggieJ

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    I think I should clarify this -- she certainly doesn't dislike me, I know she loves me with all of her heart and would do anything for me. She just doesn't like the idea of me being with other men, she'd like me married and give her grandchildren as I'm her only child.
     
  12. geniks

    geniks king of the hill

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    my mom loves me :)
     
  13. Sam Gamgee

    Sam Gamgee Every tool is a weapon if you hold it right. OT Supporter

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    you can still do that (marry and give her grandchildren) if you want to.

    You can still have that American Dream that we're programmed to want. You can have your house and the white picket fence and the wife and the two kids. It's just that your "wife" will actually be your "husband" and your kids might be adopted... or from a surrogate.
     
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    I'm a lucky one. My father also understood it.
     
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    Meh I'm sure my mom knows although I haven't told her, and she still loves me :)
     
  16. BTCollins

    BTCollins I met a gypsy and she hipped me to some life game

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    i think my mom knowing made us closer..totally opposite of what i thought would have happend. My dad on the other hand hates it
     
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    my mom doesnt...nobody does..:dunno:
     
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    ditto
     
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    elevator The tenants think it's wonderful! ヽ(´ OT Supporter

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    That's how it happened for me, well it was mum and a random find, no tech-work, but yeah similar
     
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    elevator The tenants think it's wonderful! ヽ(´ OT Supporter

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    :rolleyes: did you even tell your mom yet?
     
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    I've come across a few random gay porn pics on his computer as well, maybe 1 in 20? Sure you can accidentally download a gay porn pic on Limewire, but no way will a totally straight guy actually keep the picture.
     
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    Lol, maybe your dad has something to tell you aswell?
     
  24. Josey

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    did you fall off the damn planet? you know my number is still the same.. :squint:

    and my mother doesn't "hate" me...she just always makes little comments about things... Like I was drooling over this hot chick the other night and she said "atleast it's female..." Then I started oogaling the co-star of the show and she wasn't so happy lol...
     
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    :werd: did the same damn thing almost exactly...
     

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