Does your gf care if you go to the strip club with some friends?

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  1. wallydog11

    wallydog11 New Member

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    My friends invited me to go to the strip club with them just to chill...we'll just be drinking and relaxing there...I won't get any lapdances and I never have...

    would your gf care if you went? I asked my gf and she won't give me an answer, but I know she cares...but I probably won't end up going if she cares that much about it..
     
  2. lauren

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    dude, get her to go with you.
     
  3. wallydog11

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    lol..she definately won't go with me..
     
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    first off, just to avoid a possible fight, i WOULDNT tell her, or ask her to go to a strip club. i prefer to have "guy time" our own time. not that i would do anything stupid to fuck up my relationship, but there's somethings that you just dont have to let her know. like the old saying goes, what she doesnt know, cant hurt her.
     
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    Hell, my GF is waiting for the next time us guys go there so she can join us. She thinks it's hilarious and very entertaining. :big grin:
     
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    I want a lap dance!
     
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    My GF wants to buy me one! :rofl:
     
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    i just think its sexy. i can hardly wait to get to the car before jumping my guy and ripping his clothes off.
     
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    Yeah, I was deciding if I should tell her or not...guess I wont next time..:hs:
     
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    you should tell her. Its no big deal, and im sure she would be more pissed to find out you went and didnt tell her. Just be cool, and tell her things...if she flips out then maybe you should reconsider some more important things...
     
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    I think going to the strip club is no big deal. My guy has gone with friends without me and I've gone with him plenty of times. But if you're going to do this and not tell her make sure there are no loose ends because if she finds out, well it's not gonna be good.
     
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    If my fiancee wanted to go to a strip club with friends it wouldn't bother me. It's only a strip club, it's not like he's going to go off into the sunset with one of them. However, I'd be a bit disapointed if he didn't aske me if I wanted to go. I'm a very open person when it comes to things like this and I would actually have a good time. For those girls who don't like it, they should still be willing to let their man go, or at least tell them why they don't want him to go.

    I wouldn't do anything my fiancee wouldn't want me to do, and vice versa (with good reason). But if it's something we may both enjoy together, then I would hope we would both go.

    If I was the type of girl who didn't like strip clubs I'd probably still go at least once to get over any fears or insecurities I might have about the whole thing.
     
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    that's kinda iffy. i mean, what if she found out somehow? that's a dent in her trust in you. let her know you're planning on going. that it'll just be the guys, drinking and relaxing and that there will be no lapdance/touching involved. and offer to call her after you're done at the club and maybe go see her. it would make me feel a little uncomfortable if my boyfriend wanted to go. i don't tend to be ok w/ him looking at a bunch of naked women. but i also understand that it's just looking, nothing more. as long as he came to see me afterwards, i'd be fine with it.
     
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    I think I would have an issue if my bf asked to go to a strip club, even though there would be no touching etc etc. Im just not comfortable with him paying to go see more than half naked women when he can see the woman he loves naked for free all the time. But I dont think i would have a problem of this ever cropping up hes not the type to go to strip clubs, he doesnt like the barbie doll types. Even if he asked me to go i wouldnt I just dont care for those types of places.
     
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    insecure he will se something he likes more than you?
     
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    my girlfriend wants to go more than i do.
     
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    JonnyBlazeRSP Hustlin's in my veins - you cannot stop it - Walki

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    only a certain friend she doesnt like me going with. me and him have a habbit of running train on bitches.

    other dudes its cool.

    she will even go once in a while
     
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    personally it seems like your GF doesnt approve by the lack of response she is probably really uncomfortable, if there is a cover charge then i think its a waste even if you dont get a dance or nothing. Get a hard on at home and give the cover to your girl and get sloshed with her....otherwise i recommend bringing her to meet the guys and she will get more attention then you or your friends
     
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    Nope im a pretty good lookin cookie
     
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    i am not so crazy about them.. but i wouldnt tell my boyfriend he couldnt go and if you had a strong enough relationship you really wouldnt have any worries. i have actually been to a few strip clubs with friends.. it was interesting and fun some of the time. see if she will go with you if shes a little worried about it. i think it would be hot to go to a strip club with my so
     
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    Grimreefer Life Sucks ... and then you Die

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    couldn't have said it better
     
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    not allowed but i dont really want to go anyways
     
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    im not that into strip joins... my girl doesnt care if my buddies and I go tho.... my girl actually took me to the first one i ever went to and bought me my first lap dance.
     
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