I know 100% that she was in love with a guy that she hung out with before me. I don't think anything ever happened between them. I think the dude actually wasn't that into her and he moved on and got with another girl. One year later, after dating this girl for about 9 months or so, she claims that she never even had a crush on him. When I ask her about him, she gets this glazed over look in her eye and tells me that "he tried to get me, but he couldn't get me." Makes me kinda sad... In my mind, this means that she's still got a minor crush on this dude, but she's verbally telling me that she loves me. She's still denying to me (and maybe to herself) that she had a crush (actually was crazy "in love") with the guy, which to me, means that she still has some feelings for him. If she's in love w/ me, I don't see why she wouldn't just tell me. Hell, I know for a fact nothing happened between them, so what's the big deal with just telling me?