Does it make you like a girl more when she likes your body?

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  1. Werdna

    Werdna Livin' the SLO Life...

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    Girl I'm dating and I had the male body talk tonight over ice cream. We talked about actors and what not, and she loves Vin Diesel's physique. She said that a guy's body is more important to her than most girls and that she really appreciates when a guy has a nice body and the hard work that goes into it. Now she's told me she likes my body and my "shape" and stuff. So basically, I liked her a lot more after the conversation because she clearly was into my body and appreciates it, and that's something I work hard to maintain. Is this weird? Selfish? Wrong?

    Am I alone here? :dunno:
     
  2. MissKitty

    MissKitty If squats were easy they'd be called 'Your Mum' OT Supporter

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    Nothing wrong with having someone appreciate what you have to offer. The fact that she acknowledges that she knows this is an ego boost. Not wrong at all
     
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    ACURA TL-S OT Supporter

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    Not really. I like a girl that cares about her body, but I don't want a girl that is going to ditch me if my body goes to shit one day. Although a compliment here or there doesn't hurt. :o
     
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    Definitely a bonus IMO.
    My gf appreciates my efforts and is actually one of the first to notice if I'm cutting or putting on size. She works out too though 4-5 days per week.
    On the other hand, my training partner's gf totally knocks it. Thinks its too egotistical and thinks if she's happy with his body if he's over weight (which he used to be) then he should be happy with it too. I write it off as insecurity on her part.
     
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    Phineas Q Stork Active Member

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    it takes a strange girl to like what i'm packing underneath my shirt
     
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    My current gf loves it. I kinda think thats the only reason she is with me.

    I am a trophy bf for her. :sadwavey:

    and Im not even really big.
     
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    disblohs I can't shake this little feeling I'll never get a

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    do her in the pooper to put that bitch in her place
     
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    yeah pee in that bitches butt and bounce

    my gf says she likes bigger guys :coold: she does weightlifting though so i think thats mostly because she still wants to look small
     
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    bloodred83 im in ur cost gard, savin' ur boatz

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  11. iceburgslim

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    You're associating the good feeling you got from a compliment to the person that gave it to you. That's completely normal.
     
  12. getjacked

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    :rofl:

    she's out there... keep an eye out around the local buffets
     
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    I like it when a girl can appreciate the effort I've put in, and I definately want my girlfriend to be attracted to me, so I guess the answer is yes. :dunno:

    I lift for me and to be stronger, not so I can get girls though.
     
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    I wonder what kind of comments you get working out/walking around.... :o ibjealous
     
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    black jesus OT Supporter

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    Of course. If a bitch want to dip me in chocolate and eat it off, I don't have a problem with that...aside from that it will never happen.
     
  17. Werdna

    Werdna Livin' the SLO Life...

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    just imagine what people think and say about tize...then take the opposite
     
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    dude, of course thats normal, that would make anyone like the person a little more
     
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    werdna arent you like 170lbs now ? :mamoru2:
     
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    JAFAR FPS whore OT Supporter

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    Most definitely
     
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    jackjohnson simple as something nobody knows OT Supporter

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    i dont see why not. I havent met one guy who has said body is not important in a girl. I dont see anything wrong with girls liking certain guys for the same reason
     
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    I love it. My girl won't shut up about how much she likes my body.
     
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    Werdna Livin' the SLO Life...

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