Never really post in here but have seen some good advice given. I'm a 26 year old man and I have recently gotten a Divorce from my wife. We have been together without a break or anything for 8 years. Although we agreed to have a long engagement and both finish college before we tied the knot. We were married for 7 months. It all ended suddenly a few weeks ago. She has depression issues and I guess she felt she was unhappy with us so she told me to leave. I'm a nice guy (almost to a fault) so I left. I have gotten back on my feet as far as living conditions go. I went out and got a really nice loft in the heart of downtown. I went and bought new clothes, nice bed, nice couch. etc etc. I Miss her so much but at the same time I'm kinda stoked to be able to get out there and flex my charm again. I feel weird thinking that. I think I should be mourning more right? I have gone out almost every night with friends for the past 2 weeks. And I have been talking with a lot of girls, getting numbers setting up dates etc. I do feel sad in the morning time when I wake up alone. And sometimes at night when I lay down alone. (not really alone I have a dog and he like to put his ass right next to my face when I sleep. haha) But the other parts of the day I really don't even think about her. She was the greatest girl I had ever met and we were best friends. I do love her to death. But I really feel like moving on finding something again, something that this time may be real. I don't want to rush into things with another girl but I do want to get my self out there. So I guess my main concern is, Is this okay behavior? Or should I slow everything down a notch or two?