Does getting the girl/guy in movies, ever happen in reality?

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  1. deznutz

    deznutz New Member

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    :squint: This is a serious topic, btw.

    I am just curious if anyone has any first hand knowlege on getting the guy or girl in a "cute" way?

    Unlikely guy getting the girl...or something like that?

    Just curious if this ever happens or if the movies are 100% b.s.
     
  2. MattThom01

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    it might happen, but probably rarely. Problem is, the movies and TV convinces women that thats what they want, and convinces men of it too...and it can take awhile for guys to realize that women get really sick of it really fast.
     
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    I find that most movies are complete BS. Star Wars, for one example, where Anikin [sp?] gets Padme [thanks Viper :wavey: ] is complete BS (Episode II as I recall.) If you tried any of that stuff, most women would run like hell.
     
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    What woman can deny the alluring power of the force though? If so, that chick is ca-razzy.
     
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    If only it did happen. One movie that really tripped me out..The Girl Next Door.
    *sigh* if only....
     
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    the dialogue between those two in that movie....oy, it was bad. Like not even believable bad
     
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    Vic Mackey on The Shield scores women in a realistic, believable way in my opinion.
     
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    Whoops!

    But yeah. We just watched it last night. The first time he sees her, he's all like "You've .. grown." and leers at her. She basically responds with "You're a creepy fuck, get the hell away." Then he's all over-emotional and a crybaby about shit, and then they are fucking? Yeah, WHATEVER! :mamoru:
     
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  10. Spiritus

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    Not really. People who are full of fantasy and daydreams will be terribly dissapointed to find out that life is not like the movies - this world is terribly unforgiving and trecherous, and you have to bust your ass like crazy to get anything you really need.

    It is best to stop thinking about movies, and stop daydreaming. Some people say never stop daydreaming, well whatever floats your boat. But I just think that you have to realise life is a bitch and you have to work hard to forge beautiful things.

    Now you can occasionally make those storyline type things happen, but it should be after living in reality for a long time and just to have an unexpected rose on your pillow after you have gone to work and she has the day off... that type of thing.
     
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    Nope, doesn't happen in 99.9999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999% of relationships.

    There might be a few that has a chick flick story and ending, most of teh time it's the 80's guy friend teen movie ending..... "You're a great friend I just don't like you that way".
     
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    I think a lot of those movies play into women's socially reinforced dreams of a supremely "passionate" move by a guy and men's dream that one single act (no matter how stupid) can make up for a long series of completely moronic and callous behavior.


    Don't even get me started with Star Wars. Jawas? Total BS. Same with ewoks.


    Think I saw a wookie once, though.
     
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    I personally think the majority of male movie writers have never gotten laid, and only write to how they THINK it should work.

    Hitch was one movie that came the closest, Swingers is another. Bedazzled gives some good advice (be yourself and not some desperate fuck), Groundhog day is a good one (improve yourself), The Tao of Steve has some good tips (such as "be great" and "be gone"), and I am sure there are more. I LOVE the movie "An affair to remember" with Cary Grant. Holy shit, nearly everything he does is the epitome of a perfect gentleman. :bowdown:

    But 99.9% of movies generally suck.
     
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    who's the bigger player, rhett butler or han solo?
     
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    rhett. hands down.

    I'd rather have Leia than Scarlett, however.
     
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    If you tried the stuff you see in movies, you would be totally arrested as a stalker.
     
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