TAT Does a tongue piercing make a girl come off as slutty?

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  1. ephemeral

    ephemeral New Member

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    so i was thinking of getting my tongue pierced and when i spoke to a few guy friends about it, they said that generally when they see a girl with it, they consider her a whore...
    is it just them, or is that actually what stereotyping has come down to today? a girl with a tongue piercing puts out...?
    ah, i really want to get it done, but not if its gonna give me an automatic label like that...

    :sadwavey:
     
  2. Diedemus

    Diedemus Google is my HMO

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    why do you want to get it done?
     
  3. bobdole

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    nah, thats hot when a girl does it

    hey, girls, if you got it, flaunt it

    a girls only a slut if she sleeps and cheats with a lot of guys
     
  4. dirtyoldman

    dirtyoldman the colonel has arrived.

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    i find it kinda hot, but overall, i'd say that your friends covered most people's opinions of it.
     
  5. D

    D A guiltless state of self awareness.. The process

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    Who cares? If they think that, they are probably young and angry. Feel like wasting time working their 'mommy issues' out with them?
    No? Then do whatever makes you feel good.
     
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    I have noticed that most 'sluttly' girls with tongue rings are showing it off to everyone and playing with it so everyone can see it.
     
  7. Zaffir

    Zaffir OT Supporter

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    Some people assume that anything more than the standard ear lobe piercing on a girl means she's a slut. Anyone who judges you based on a piece of metal in your mouth is a douchebag and their opinion doesn't matter one bit.

    Get it done :)
     
  8. Improvolone

    Improvolone New Member

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    point

    My ex's solder sister had a tounge piercing, and you'd only know if you asked her or when you saw random flashes of light as she was talking.
     
  9. ephemeral

    ephemeral New Member

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    yeah that's exactly why i want a tongue piercing... it's not as noticable as something like an eyebrow, but i still find it looks hot.. literally ever year i get an urge to get pierced and this year i was debating between tongue and nipple, but tongue sounds like a safer way to go.
     
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    D A guiltless state of self awareness.. The process

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  11. Yukonart

    Yukonart Active Member

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    Being slutty is a function of acts, not of looks. Anyone who judges based on the latter is an idiot to begin with. (ie: doesn't matter what people think) :)
     
  12. Buttons

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    why do you care what other people think of you?
     
  13. ephemeral

    ephemeral New Member

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    anyone who says they completely don't care what people think of them is a liar... we're all human. all i'm saying is i don't want to be recieving the wrong kind of attention, that's all
     
  14. Mel

    Mel RIP James :(

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    any body mod will give you an automatic label simply because you have it - but only to ignorant people
     
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    well i guess im a liar
     
  17. LiqwudIce

    LiqwudIce New Member

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    I don't find it attractive, but don't really see it as slutty... Her actions show much more than that than a simpe piercing.
     
  18. just another guy

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    i think its hot
     
  19. ephemeral

    ephemeral New Member

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    i guess you are... but that's okay for it is just another human characteristic
     
  20. Laurel

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    I think the "slutty" reputation of the tongue ring is because it was originally, and still quite often, a sexual piercing. We all know that anyone who has even any hints of being comfortable with their sexuality is a slut. Duh. :rolleyes:

    That said... I've had my tongue pierced for nearly 3 years. No tooth damage as of yet
     
  21. machine81

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    yes, yes it does :naughty:
     

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