does a ring on her finger mean shes married

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  1. 98formyws6

    98formyws6 New Member

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    as the question states does a ring on a girls left ring finger mean shes married/taken, she's hispanic btw.

    reason i ask is theres a beddie (chick) i've been diggin and i dont want to seem like a huge jackass and ask her out if she is
     
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    I'm not sure, but it's ok to ask her "You seem like an awesome person(or whatever compliment) and I was wanting to ask you out, but the ring you're wearing threw me off, are you married, by chance?" Just be gentlemanly abotu it and you won't get slapped.:)
     
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    lots of unmarried girls wear rings
     
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    Yail Bloor OT Supporter

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    dont start out by complimenting her, she gets that all the time and it wont help your cause. Make her earn a compliment, don't just throw it at her like all the other guys do
     
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    If there is a diamond solitaire involved, yes. Otherwise, probably not, though not everyone follows the "standard" tradition.
     
  6. 98formyws6

    98formyws6 New Member

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    well all her friends are nerdy (nothing wrong w/ that) so it seems like shes the shy type

    also i saw her in the summer and told her my fall school schedule and i was suprised to see she added a class im in and talked to me when she came in (i actually dont know that well at all)

    and later today she was talking w/ my friend and she asked my friend bout me, dunno if those are good things? i'm a dope when it comes to these things

    but whatever, i'll just ask her out and take it like a man if she turns me down

    also whats a diamond solitaire?
     
  7. awlewis

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    a solitary (or single) diamond ring

    So what if she is married. Just tell her you were unsure and didn't mean any disrespect.
     
  8. drjamima

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    Can't hurt to ask
     
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    armond New Member

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    Exactly, some women use the ring to ward off people. Best bet? Ask, be up front. You don't have to compliment immediately, it is a compliment enough that someone is inquiring about it. It obviously means you are at least slightly interested. That is an actual compliment.
     
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    there are some crazy girls out there... at least in nj. went out with a group of my bro's friends and this one girl, who was single, said that she has a "back-up" ring (looks like an engagement ring).

    from the horse's mouth: "i have this ring i sometimes wear when i go out. it gives me a lot more attention."

    i just gave her the :ugh:
     
  11. keleko

    keleko yes, he is

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    i see a ring, i won't even bother the attempt
    not worth my time or effort, as clearly the ring is there for a reason - if not married, then to at least to say "go away already"
     
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    while going at it from behind ask her if shes married
     
  13. Cerridwen

    Cerridwen Guest

    As a married woman, I appreciate this.
     
  14. Phantom Empress

    Phantom Empress mmmmmm tasty!!!

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    i have a fake engagement ring just for that purpose, to mean "back off I'm taken"

    too bad that i have found It makes people talk to me more when I'm out by myself. So now I rarely ever wear it.
     
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    Well yeah, if you are wearing it and out alone... we tend to think there is trouble in paradise and you might be an easy score :mamoru:
     
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    Sometimes a ring is a family heirloom. Also, some of us are not traditionalists; my engagement ring does not have a diamond solitare, so ...... just ask. What can it hurt?
     
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    Phantom Empress mmmmmm tasty!!!

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    out at the grocery store or th emall or at work or something mundane and not party related . i don't club or party.
     
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    i'd say just ask. it can't hurt anything. just don't be a pompous ass about it.

    before i was engaged, i used to wear the promise ring on my left hand when i would go out with the girls.

    now that i have the glass cutter, i of course wear it on that finger and it tends to work very well. a guy will come up and start chatting. if its anything but friendly conversation, i casually pick up my beer with my left hand and start gesturing with it. they usually see the rock pretty quickly and bail out.

    makes me laugh every time.
     
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    best idea. this way you find out without being an asshole & if she's not married you're more likely to get a yes out of her
     
  20. Bella

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    I wear a ring on my Wedding finger and I'm not engaged or married. I wear it because it's my favorite ring and it fits on that finger I guess. I have another one on the same finger just on the other side.

    Just ask her cant hurt, if she gets offended just say you didnt know because you know single girls that wear rings on the finger. It's innocent
     
  21. TheProwler

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    if it looks like two rings, she's married. if it looks like a big diamond, she's probably engaged.
     

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