Do your friends like your gf?

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  1. The Stapler

    The Stapler OT Supporter

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    My best friend is upset with my gf of over a year because he thinks she should take a more proactive approach in getting to know all my friends. They really don't have anything in common, so there's not a whole lot for them to talk about, but he expects her to not act shy around my friends, despite being part of her personality.


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  2. The Mafia

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    he's not trying hard enough to help her come out of her shell.

    But then again, don't let her come out too much...she might become too interested in your friends...
     
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    Does it really matter? You don't have to have them mix together, though it can be better. But if she is a fairly private person it can take a long time for her to come out of her shell around a group of loud guys.
     
  4. RedVsBlue

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    She should be getting to know your friends, especially after a year.

    Who knows you best? your friends do I hope...id take what they say to heart. If your girl doesnt have anything in common with your friends, then what does she have in common with you?
     
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    she should be getting to know your friends especially after a year.
     
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    You're gf is at fault here. She should let the bullshit shy card go, especially after a year. If you all can't casually hang out to the point where everyone is happy, you should re-evaluate what is going on.

    You aren't in high school anymore, an assuming she isn't either..tell her to stop the shy crap.
     
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    Maybe he's been hitting on her or otherwise making her uncomfortable? What's her take on it?

    Sometimes we don't know the whole story.... just a thought, not saying I think that's the truth (above.)
     
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    My g/f is fairly proactive in trying to break the ice with my friends, can't say the same for them though, lazy fucks... but yeah they like her.
     
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    Yep, and they all share a common interest:

    Tormenting me.
     
  10. RedVsBlue

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    :rofl: I feel ya :wavey:
     
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    No. Most of them won't even hang out if there is a chance she will be around.
     
  12. The Stapler

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    The friends that I hang out with often I don't have a whole lot in common with. We dress different, listen to different types of music, have different hobbies, etc, ironically.
     
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    I met my partner through friends so we kinda had the same circle of friends to begin with.

    I believe that your partner should get along with your friends and your family and if they don't then you need to assess why you are with someone who those who know you best can't figure out.
     
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    My friends like him.. and he pretends to like mine. :squint:

    And yea, his friends like me. They just don't know what I'm doing with him. :mamoru:
     
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    my mates didnt like my g/f nor did my g/f like my mates.. it was awkward :dunno:
     
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  18. Pinksmartie

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    My bf's friends don't know I exist :hs: .

    My friends can't get me to stop talking about him though :hs: .
     
  19. RedVsBlue

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    Your a teenage girl, what else is to be expected :dunno:
     
  20. Pinksmartie

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    :mamoru: You're right I guess :o
     
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    my friends like him. but. some of my guy friends think he's not good enough for me.

    his friends like me, i was friends with them before i met him, and he was friends with them before he met me.. we just never crossed paths. its funny, he was trying to get them to introduce him to me for a couple years, they refused. so basically. they're cock-blockers.
     

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