Do you think about other people while having sex?

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  1. RTMWTF

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    Is this highly abnormal? I'm a bit confused with this one.
     
  2. antihero

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    I never understood this... i cant even imagine having sex with my head so far out of whats actually happening.
     
  3. volcomstoner

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    Yeah, I do.
    Sometimes just whats going on isn't doing it for me. So I think about something else, or someone else.

    I do think it's fucked up to be thinking of someone else, but, whatever gets you off right? :jerkit:
     
  4. scent of a wookie

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    :rofl: yepp, I think of odd things sometimes
     
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    Sometimes. Not so much with my current SO as with ones in the past. She really does it for me! :naughty:
     
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    I just did it about an hour ago :naughty:.
     
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    Havnt needed to yet... Not sure who I would think of actually
     
  8. demosnat

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    No, sex is completly engaging I wouldnt want to distract myself with fantasies when im in a situation to actually fulfill them
     
  9. RTMWTF

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    If I could I'd keep em out of my head... I wish I didn't do it, I feel like shit.
     
  10. demosnat

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    I once had a health teacher in high school explain that men have flashbacks about sex while having sex, that smells, tastes, sensations etc all come flooding back with an intensity comparalbe to shell shock Nam-esque flashbacks... and explained why this makes sense evolutionarily.
    So no, I dont think its abnormal in the least, especially if youve had a lot of partners. Im sure youve tried every meditative techniques, concentrating on your body etc....so im not sure, try talking to her during sex so its more personal maybe?
     
  11. Justin Niggalake

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    i have before.
     
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    i'm with ya on this...i'm so caught up in the moment that i don't think of anything other than what is going on at that moment...
     
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    i have before... about the person i'm sleeping with now :coolugh:
     
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    Ryuhei Oh gawd

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    I never have but I don't think it's abnormal.
     
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    Only when they giggle too loud from the other side of the bed:mamoru:
     
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    yes a few times, but mostly when drunk...more like remembering though, you know thinking of Ex's
     
  17. RTMWTF

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    This sex isn't that great, I don't know why... She usually pushes me into it. It almost feels like a "we're both horny lets bust a nut and get it over with" type of thing...
     
  18. moonie

    moonie u want a FRANKYUM?

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    it's funny having sex when ur hungry.. i keep thinking about food and not the person
     
  19. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    that makes awful, horrible sex :hug:
     
  20. gkremian

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    :eek4: :rofl:

    I can safely say that I never thought of someone else during sex.. I was too busy thinking of me. :bigthumb:
     
  21. RedVsBlue

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    its completely natural. Usually if my mind wonders from what is currently going on, it travels back to the last time my wife and I were having sex or something...or some kinky thing we did in the past.

    I mean, im sure other things have crossed my mind, but nothing turns me on more than thkning of her, or thinking of the things we have done together :dunno:
     
  22. Falconer

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    I have a friend who was dieting down for a bodybuilding show. One time while he was nailing this girl, he said he looked up and saw a mirror, and started looking at his own abs in the mirror while he was doing her (he was a bit thicker and could finally see his abs as he dieted down for the show). Your comment reminded me of this.
     
  23. RedVsBlue

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    Welcome to my life.... I am a narcissistic bastard if there ever was one. Why do you think we have mirros all over the walls and ceiling near the bed :)
     

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