SRS Do you help people that suck at life

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  1. Spiritus

    Spiritus Active Member

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    I do.

    I help a lot of my girlfriends friends. They all suck at life, and I am like a little a helper.

    I see people with problems and I try my best to help them with it. I start small with baby steps, trying to get them to write down their goals and shit and then progress onto bigger things.

    I dont allow suffering to continue when I can lead them on to a path that will be bennificial to them.

    People live life as if it has no meaning. That is so incredibly wrong, so wrong in fact that I am suprised there isnt an entire course dedicated towards self help and pychology in modern k-12 school systems.

    - a lightbringer :)
     
  2. Jay Pheezy

    Jay Pheezy New Member

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    I like to.. makes you feel worthy :wiggle:
     
  3. svetlanalemon

    svetlanalemon A little blood and vomit on the car seat...

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    thats a great way to put it.

    "i help people who suck at life" :hsugh:

    ....you're nice.
     
  4. KDazzle

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    its true sometimes, though.. you just look at some of the stuff that ppl do and you think, "wtf are you thinking?".
     
  5. ledzep73

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    When I was in highschool I did alot, now I don't hardly ever.
     
  6. Pringles

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    I do this, but I only do it if the person chooses to come to me. I'm not going to be offering my help to everyone because then there would be lines. But I consider myself an EXCELLANT resource if you need help with lifes struggles. I'm still learning so I'm not perfect, but I tend to do it as much as I can. I just dont go looking for it.
     
  7. toeshoes

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    I tell them to seek therapy. Seek therapy.
     
  8. procrastinator

    procrastinator New Member

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    It isnt your place to decide someone sucks at life.
     
  9. Gladiator

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    i don't think you can say someone sucks at life until you know what they are going through...:wtf are you thinking moments: are just those times when you don't understand what they are going through. You can't say someone sucks at life, it's not your place.
     
  10. big 1

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    Im a child and youth worker. I help people everyday I live. Its the reason I am living.
     
  11. svetlanalemon

    svetlanalemon A little blood and vomit on the car seat...

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    "We are so influenced by circumstance"

    Circumstance can gravely affect our lives, making us feel weak and small, while also making us feel great .....

    when someone is going through a really hard time in his/her life, you dont say " wow they suck at life".... everyone's environment is different and have different responses to things, because we have all lived unique lives.... you never say ANYONE sucks at life. That's just rude.
     
  12. KDazzle

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    well i dont think badly about ppl who may make a mistake that is out of character. im just talking about those ppl who consistently make mistakes with their life. i try to help those ppl but i guess saying they suck at life is a little too harsh.
     
  13. teo

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    I will always tryto help, but people have to want to help themselves first. They can't be forced into a better life unwillingly.
     

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