Do you guys ever not cum, for no reason at all?

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  1. f4i4me

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    Sometimes, for like a week at a time my bf wont cum at all no matter what we do. Before he used to cum pretty quick, which i didnt really mind .. he lasts as long as he wants now but cant cum half the time. HE said it happened with his ex a few years ago too.. i asked him if it had anything to do with me and he said not at all, it's just somehitng that happens. Anyone ever hear of anything like this???
     
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    Mutilus New Member

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    I had that same problem when I had relations with my ex-wife, but it was because she just wasn't "doing it" for me anymore.
     
  3. f4i4me

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    yeah, that's wat im afraid of, but he keeps saying its not me
     
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    It may not be, I am just telling you what it was for me.
     
  5. J-Tizzle

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    Do you have sex or just blowjob?
     
  6. f4i4me

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    both.. its the same
     
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    Suggestion: Try getting a wig or get a little freaky on him, see if that works.
     
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    sexhaver420 Buying stuff I don't need, with money I don't have OT Supporter

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    i had that problem but it just turned out i had to pee.
     
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    I have that problem sometimes... You guys just gotta find a way that he always cums... for me, its when the girl is on top, going slowly. Usually if he continually stops himself from cuming, he's training himself not to cum, hes probably stopping himself from cumming because hes trying to make you orgasm, tell him not to worry about it, and just let him do what feels good for him.
     
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    Um, sometimes a guy just isnt gonna cum....just like sometimes a girl isnt always gonna cum. You need to work on your self esteem if you automatically think there is a problem and you need to change something because *you cant get him off*. There is a 99% chance that it isnt you, and that it was just a time when his body couldnt cum. That didnt mean it didnt feel good, or he got no enjoyment....
     
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    but if all else fails....doggy style usually brings it home :)
     
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    Sometimes if its the 2nd or 3rd time within a short time, can't cum.

    Or if I just worked out at the gym or I am really tired, and my muscles start to cramp/get sore while having sex... yeah that kills my orgasm pretty fast.

    Or sometimes the condom causes me to not feel anything. So I have to ask her if I can take it off :o
     
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    Happens to me when I'm drunk.
     
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    just hella blue balls... lol
     
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    True, I think it is pretty normal with Whiskey Dick.
     
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    Whiskey Dick is correct. Jessica Alba could be floggin the dolphin but if I'm drunk, she'll have Popeye's forearms before I ever get mine.
     

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