LGBT Do you go to gay clubs/bars?

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  1. geniks

    geniks king of the hill

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    Just wondering how much of the community on here hits up the gay/lesbian clubs.
     
  2. NOVAJock

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    No. I go to all the straight ones so I can make fun of the fags.
     
  3. Matitulo

    Matitulo If sexy never left then why is everybody on my shi

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    I do. Shit is fun as hell. Music is typically better in gay clubs, and the constant eye-fucking that goes on is insane. Be sure to bring your favorite fag hag or fruit fly to be the liaison between you and that random guy/girl that wants to hook up.
     
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    Never been, never plan on going to one. I prefer the small town little country bars. Better music, plenty of stupid rednecks to laugh at, and when the fights break out they are even more hilarious.
     
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    I go to straight ones, never been to a gay one...I wouldnt mind going to one but dont really have any gay friends lol
     
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    don't really care for gay clubs (i hate gay trance/house) but i go to bars all the time.
     
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    same here... let's be friends! :wavey:
     
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    Yeah, this is true for me as well, I love going out to bars but not really a club scene kind of person. :ugh:
     
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    lets go..cant tonight, im going to GR but maybe next weekend? Id be so fucking nervous my first time at a gay club O_O
     
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    honestly I think if you lived close to me we'd be really good friends
     
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    wrong crowd of people :ugh:
     
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    well, i mean, i like to go dancing every once in a while, but duh! duh! duh! duh! kind of booty techno is not what i like to dance to.

    i was a raver for years so my taste in electronic music is a little more...refined.
     
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    TheMustafa hook 'em

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    NB, in every other post you make, I feel like you include some self-deprecating comment or projection of your own insecurity. You seem like an attractive, intelligent, easy-going guy who should have no reason to be nervous in a gay bar.

    You can either spend the next years of your life constantly worrying about how you are viewed, obsessing over your own perceived shortcomings, and not living your life as it should be lived, or you can realize that everyone has shortcomings they have to deal with in their own lives. Everyone is just trying to make lemonade with lemons, man. Don't waste your youth worrying; stop punishing yourself. I wasted most of college worrying about coming out, body image, etc, and i still regret it to this day, because I did it to myself.
     
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    its funny, cause i don't think i can dance but all my friends seem to think i can but i can dance to pretty much anything if i'm drunk enough lol but yeah the whole electronic thing isnt for me either :hsugh:
     
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    :greddy:
     
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    If I don't like the scene/vibe at a bar or club, I leave. My town doesn't have a gay bar, sadly, and only one bar has a gay night that has significant attendance, and the sexual frustration and judgment in the air is so palpable I can't breathe.
     
  17. Sam Gamgee

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    stubby and I go, maybe, once every three months...

    Every now and then, I get a craving to be around other guys in a smelly bar with music so loud I can't hear myself think...

    And then I'm good for another few months.
     
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    I've only been to one club/anything (it was a pub) in my life and I felt uncomfortable and waited OUTSIDE for almost an hour for my friends to finish so we could leave. I flat out told my gay roommate "I will NEVER go to the clubs with you"..and he gets pissed at me but I just do not feel comfortable in atmosphere where people drink.
     
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    no, i only like straight guys :yum:
     
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    :rofl: :h5:
     
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    LOL... I seem to keep letting myself fall for them too! :o
     
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    Amen!
    I find that straight clubs are really uptight and if you dance with the wrong person, you're in for a beat-down :ugh:
    While the music is better though, there sometimes isn't too much of a variation. I'm pretty sure I hear every fucking Beyonce song every time I go:hsugh:

    I also used to think that drag queens were a staple at every club, but not really. Though they are entertaining :rofl:
     
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    I ended up not going out tonight :wtc:

    going to work out instead, meh
     
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    im not insecure im just shy and it takes me a while to warm up to people
     
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    Maybe I'm just repressed but the whole bar/club scene really isn't my thing. Though I am planning to go out sometime when my friend does, she has yet to let me know of the goings on. Though I'd much prefer just a simple house partier, cheaper and friendlier.
     

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