do you ever feel bad?

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  1. THoC

    THoC New Member

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    for poor saps who are clue less?

    during my break up w. my current gf i "dated" this girl i sort of work with.

    got her #. text here and there. from her texts and brief convos i knew the girl was a flake. but she is hot and i was single so i wanted to have a little fun.

    hung out w. her once in her side of town. complete attention whore. pretty much has all the guys at her local hang outs doing what she wants. they bought her and I drinks all night :ugh:

    then a week later she came to my house and we hung out.

    the whole time she is putting on this front of:

    "im jaded to relationships"

    "i dont date any more"

    "im unable to fall in love"

    the entire time im just like ah ha... ah ha.... head nodding.... what ever you say :)

    couple days later she calls me. she is getting feelings for me. im great. im mysterious. so on.... im like.... WTF :eek4:

    so i tell her right then and there. i dont want a relationship. have no interest in one. i break it off.


    every day at work i see her and she has like 5 different guys that she would downgrade when talking to me buying her lunch, drinks, etc...
    this one dude gets off work at 7pm and waits 3 fucking hrs for her to get off. he walks her to her car and she leaves. i even saw him trying to kiss her a few times and she turns away and laughs. :o


    im getting this itch to go slap all of them over the head and explain to them that thay have no shot and that they are being used.

    i wont..... but just wondering if any of you ever have said something in these situations.
    none of them are my friends. just work acquaintances.
     
  2. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Nope

    I just laugh at their ignorance.
     
  3. Lucky Penny

    Lucky Penny Mr. cut me some slack cause I don't wanna go back,

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    I do feel bad. But (at least the people I know) keep themselves locked in their own ignorance when the way out is perfectly clear. :dunno: It's their own fault.
     
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    I feel bad cause I can relate to them.

    being clueless is a choice, though. I've went from being completely clueless to only semi-clueless, and it's all because of choices I have made. :big grin:
     
  5. THoC

    THoC New Member

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    are they friends of yours? if so why not tell them? have you in the past and they are hopeless?


    i have a good friend of mine that does this shit at times.

    exmaple:

    we go out one night and a girl he likes sends this text "vodka/pineapple. im outside".

    he shows it to me. i tell him... "please tell me you're not going to!?". he does. walks around for 5 min looking for her and doesnt see her.

    5 min later we see her. she comes over and he hands her the drink. she looks at him and says "oops. i forgot you were even here!". he laughs.

    i could not help but talk to him about it. i was actually kind of pissed off that he would let her pull that shit.
     
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    yeah, I would feel bad, but I would never say anything. Maybe its just cuz I'm a chick. I've seen a lot of guys go after girls who use/abuse them, but its just not my place to say anything. Same goes for girls chasing man-whores.
     
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    Don't be Captain Save-a-Bro.

    The world is the way it is for a reason. Not everyone will be able to find love, happiness, companionship etc. Not everyone can be a winner.
     
  8. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    :nono: If it's happened more than once I can't feel sorry :mamoru:
     
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    :rofl:

    http://forums.offtopic.com/showthread.php?t=4269683
     
  10. giz

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    I feel bad when my friends like this convince themselves they are happy when I know they are not. I try to talk to them but they refuse to change
     
  11. Joshua

    Joshua ambition over everything OT Supporter

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    every dude has been that chump at some point

    minus cohen
     
  12. Lucky Penny

    Lucky Penny Mr. cut me some slack cause I don't wanna go back,

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    Of course we've talked about it- I wouldn't let a friend of mine just wander aimlessly like that. Sometimes it's like talking to a brick wall though. If they chose not to see the reality of the situation, I can't do much about it :hs:
     
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    i attempt to talk to them because i have been and still sometimes am doing the same mistakes. i have friends who have told me whats up and warned me and sometimes i listen and sometimes i learn the hard way. they get to tell me "i told u so".. so i at least try to share some wisdom to try to do some good. whether they listen or not is their fault, like it was mine
     
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    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    as long as the lesson you take from this story is NOT, "don't trust an extroverted hot girl's interest if she flirts with you." in my experience taking flirtation at face value can make it real.
     
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    BlazinBlazer Guy Witness to The De-Evolution of Mankind.

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    Correct response? "Well come inside and I'll have the drink here waiting... along with the waitress so you can pay her for it."

    :noes:
     
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    or,

    no thanks, if you get me a whiskey and coke ill come out though.
     
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  19. JoJoBee

    JoJoBee Hanging out with my chicks! OT Supporter

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    JoJoBee Hanging out with my chicks! OT Supporter

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    and THoC, you and your woman broke up??? :eek4:
     
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    Only to a friend, maybe twice if the first time they don't listen... after that i just laugh at them... anyone else, not my problem...
     
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    id only help a good friend or relative
     
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    My friends could probably say the same thing about me and vice-versa. We've established our comfort zones.
     
  24. THoC

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    nah. i saw the above mentioned guy waiting for this chick for 3 hrs. it reminded me of when i was talking to that girl and made me feel bad for him.
     
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    Where do you get tattooed?
     

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