Do you enjoying knowing you're more attractive than your SO?

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  1. SuckerPhree

    SuckerPhree New Member

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    This is, without a doubt, a shitty question to realize or think about.
    I know, it's insensitive and evil.

    But has it ever crossed your mind?

    Does the thought of knowing you are "relatively" better looking make you feel secure?

    Or at least, make you feel like you have more control over situations.

    I'm just throwing it out there.

    ::flame suit::
     
  2. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    I think my current bf and I are pretty even. Others might feel differently but I feel confident in that....However, I have dated other guys that I could say and know I was more attractive than in the most unbiased way. Did I feel I had some power over them? God no. Did it in some even small way make me feel good? Yep. Then again I am a narcissistic animal :mamoru:
     
  3. BlackIce72

    BlackIce72 New Member

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    That's a sure fire way to be more crushed than usual if the person breaks up with you

    oddly enough
     
  4. MissKitty

    MissKitty If squats were easy they'd be called 'Your Mum' OT Supporter

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    My husband is the hottest man on the planet, to me. He thinks I am the hottest woman on the planet.

    If I were to try and judge our looks on the way the majority of society looks at us, would I be more attractive? Probably. But it doesn't make me feel comfortable knowing that more men would want me than females wanting him, there have been women in the past who have tried to get his attention while we were dating.

    Attractive or not, don't go purely on looks. My husband is a very good man. He is charming, attentive, kind and very intelligent.

    He is far more intelligent than I am and that does make me feel a little awkward, for a better word.

    As a person I think my husband is far more attractive than I am. He handles social situations better and again, is very intelligent.

    That said, if we ever ended up breaking up, both of us would be distraught and may not enter into society ever ever again :)
     
  5. Hahawhat?

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    When I put a suit and tie on I always get hit on, women love it but the same thing goes for my SO, when she wears a sexy outfit every guy eye fucks her to death. I say given the day it could go either way but on average we are about the same. She always tells me that she doesn't think she looks good enough for me and I told her that I work out so I can keep up with looking good for her.
     
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    my ex was WAY hotter than me, and I thought It was pretty cool.
     
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    lol yes
     
  8. giz

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    when we went out together, I was the one that received more compliments... did it make me feel more secure0 maybe. but the only opinion that mattered was hers.
     
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    signal New Member

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    I think we're pretty even in the looks department. I don't want to speculate on the criteria, but in my mind we're a good match.

    She likes my flat abs and I dig her cute little Asian demeanor. Enough said!
     
  10. lauren

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    someone here found out about that lately :mamoru:
     
  11. Falconer

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    my gf is gorgeous, but i like that she thinks i'm hotter than she is :mamoru:
     
  12. LBFilmGuy

    LBFilmGuy LOL why u mad tho?

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    My other half is fucking hot, and so am I.

    :h5:
     
  13. Alaya

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    oh, and for the record, I think my current SO and I are pretty evenly matched lookswise :wiggle:
     
  14. Midgetized

    Midgetized Don't mess with Douche Cat

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    I've been the more attractive one with everyone I've dated/slept with except the first 2. I prefer it that way. I don't want to be with a guy who is going to be hit on by chicks all the time. And for the most part those guys tend to treat me better. Hot guys tend to be like the hot chicks-they've gotten by on looks for awhile so their personalities aren't usually as great and being good looking makes them cocky and arrogant which I don't like.
     
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    i would say we're on the same playing field. i like it that way!
     
  16. radfad88

    radfad88 The Batman-O-Lantern

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    I heard from friends, family and even OT that people thought I was more attractive than my ex. Although I thought he was the sexiest thing around (friends and family did not get to see him nekkid like I did :naughty:), I don't really recall any other girls flirting with him basically ever. I have to say that this eased some of the insecurity issues I usually experience when dating. Maybe I was more mature and over the insecurities for the most part, but I think it was probably just that I had no one to be jealous of.
     
  17. Falconer

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    :mamoru:
     
  18. formul8

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    A girl can be smoking hot, but then can quickly become a "not" by opening her mouth and saying something stupid.
     
  19. jdm-cd5

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    most of the girls in my life are intimidated by my looks. they prefer if i dressed down or grew a beard to cover up my brutally handome looks.
     
  20. MCohen

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    She's more attractive than me, so no.
     
  21. formul8

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    My ex is cute, but not "Hot". She would tell me there are better guys that would love to be with her.

    I told her "Then what's stopping you? If you think you can do better, then go."
     
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    Talking purely physically i'm a 6.5 at best, my SO is at least an 8.5. Ironically i am MUCH more secure in our relationship than she is.

    Her insecurities can definitely get annoying but i'm comfortable and happy with our dynamic.
     
  23. Ideotique

    Ideotique Drinking on monday nights does not make me an alco

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    Both comfortable 7's.
     
  24. Falconer

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    Sounds like a manipulative bitch. That's the kind of thing that mind-game-playing bitches say. Good thing she's your ex.

    Your reply was perfect :h5:
     
  25. giz

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    :wtf:

    mine would say "I love being the one on your arm, I can see the jealousy in all the girls' eyes" :wtc:
     

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