Do you care if your SO grinds w other people at clubs? v.did we do this one already?

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do you care if your SO grinds with other people at clubs?

  1. I'm a guy - no, i don't care

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    9.6%
  2. I'm a guy - yes, I don't want my gf letting other dudes press their dick into her

    180 vote(s)
    78.9%
  3. I'm a chick - no, i don't care

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  4. I'm a chick - yes, I don't want my bf pressing his dick into other chicks

    19 vote(s)
    8.3%
  1. Falconer

    Falconer OT Supporter

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    self-explanatory

    edit - this is for serious relationships, not casual dating
     
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  2. Decease

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    I wouldn't be pleased with it.
     
  3. Falconer

    Falconer OT Supporter

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    :h5:

    You are on the right track.

    Too many people ask "how do I get my gf to stop?"

    The answer is "you find one who doesn't have the desire to do so."
     
  4. jmezz

    jmezz layin in bed stretchin my pumped quads for hours

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    No girlfriend of mine is going to have some other guy ram his cock on and around her ass.
     
  5. Lucky Penny

    Lucky Penny Mr. cut me some slack cause I don't wanna go back,

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    I'm a chick - no, i don't care
     
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  7. Falconer

    Falconer OT Supporter

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    people who vote "don't care," can you elaborate as to why you don't care?
     
  8. Deborah

    Deborah Seeing is believing, but I don't want to know.

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    Is it just me that is a chick and care?:mamoru: grinding is sexual I think and unless he is ok with me doing the same with other guys, he can't do it.:dunno: he can do all kind of other dances with girls tho, as long as they are not super suggestive.
     
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    I wouldn't like it. Unless it was some sort of joke or something
     
  10. Abomb

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    i care
     
  11. teep

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    would you do it though?
     
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    i'm a chick and i would care, though i wouldnt date someone who was doing that anyway, its like half a step from cheating to me
     
  13. BoomerP

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    Maybe if I was on drugs
     
  14. Deborah

    Deborah Seeing is believing, but I don't want to know.

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    werd.

    I think chicks that don't care, don't care because they are doing it themselves:mamoru:
     
  15. Falconer

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    still waiting for one of the "don't care" people to explain their thinking.
     
  16. Alaya

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    "Other" for me if it was an option, I think I've explained this in other threads before.

    My group of friends and I are all big on dancing. A majority of the time we go out to dance because it's what we like to do, not to go meet random people. The large majority of the time we all dance within the group we went out with too. It's what we love to do. If I'm in a relationship, there's always a set group of "pre-approved/discussed" people to dance with. For example, with Patrick and I, I would dance with his brother and best friend all the time when Patrick didn't feel like dancing. Most of the time he was out with us. The same rules apply for him. He LOVED to dance, but when his neck was hurting he didn't feel like it. If he was out without me and wanted to dance he would all the time with people I didn't care if he danced with :dunno:


    I wouldn't go out and dance with "randoms" ever if I was in a relationship [which I rarely, if ever do even when I'm single, it's 99% of the time always just with my friends anyways].
     
  17. Bob Brown

    Bob Brown bewshit, bewshit, bewshit

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    Alaya, circle dance or actual 1 on 1 but in groups dance? or jumping up and down crazy glo sticks dance?
     
  18. antihero

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    ehh.. if i trust her, im not worried about it. if i don't trust her, ive got bigger problems
     
  19. Alaya

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    :rofl: all of the above :mamoru:
     
  20. copperkali

    copperkali Mrs. Nicklk

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    I'm a chick, and we would have serious issues if my bf was dancing with anyone but me :o
     
  21. Lucky Penny

    Lucky Penny Mr. cut me some slack cause I don't wanna go back,

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    Ya know, it just doesn't bother me :dunno:

    1. He's coming home to me.

    2. I trust him.

    3. I think it's hot when other women hit on him.
     
  22. Lucky Penny

    Lucky Penny Mr. cut me some slack cause I don't wanna go back,

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    Sorry :o The entire time I was making french toast just now I was thinking "I've got to get back to that thread- Falconer is probably getting all antsy" :rofl::rofl::rofl:
     
  23. Alaya

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    I dunno, I always feel like I'm in the minority when it comes to dancing issues in the Vag. Maybe it's because my group of friends loves dancing so much, all kinds of dancing, that it's just no big deal to me :dunno:
     
  24. Alaya

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    :werd:
    :werd:
    :werd:
     
  25. Pringles

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    relationships are all about trust to me. Assuming I trust her which I have to to be dating her then it's fine with me. I'm the one who actually gets to put it in her butt at the end of the night anyway.
     

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