Do you believe in the one that got away?

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  1. AmCo

    AmCo Haters goin' Hate

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    Well i do. Two so far in my lifetime. Anybody else?
     
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    Everyday in my life...

    Yea, it's bad because I don't even know which one.
     
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    Love works in it's own mysterious ways. I believe there is no way you can create love or prevent it. The ones that got away obviously left for a reason. If love was supposed to work, you would still be together. I really don't feel I let anyone get away. I know when there is a connection or not, and whenever the connection is broken, I would no longer want to pursue one person; it just wasn't meant to be.

    Until someone can scientifically prove how love works, I'll stick to this theory.
     
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    :werd: I couldn't have put it better myself. I also think there is no one right person for everybody. I think you could be happy and love a number of people. It's all in what you make of it. :wiggle:
     
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    The fact that there have been two of 'the one that got away' sort of contradicts the notion of a sole pre destined mate, doesn't it? If that's what you're talking about...

    There was probably also a time that I fervently believe the same thing though.
    It was after me and an ex went our seperate ways. And I clung to that belief for years. Until I met my current gf which has been even more wonderful. And that put things in perspective.
     
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    I feel pathetic but I've been looking back almost daily. I wasted my time on a girl I thought would be better and now the love of my life is married. :wtc:
     
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    when i say the one that got away i mean just got away. I don't mean the one i will end up with for the rest of my life. I just mean ones that i think it could have been something more if things were different.


     
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    Different how? Bad timing?
     
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    Understood.

    What were your exact relationships with the two that 'got away'?
     
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    well the first one i never really had and i guess she didn't get away. But if things were different i think we would have been together for a long time.

    the second one is the real one. We've been going out for 2 1/2 yrs and then she brokeup with me. This was long distance though. Then we were friends for two years afterwards. I wanted to be with her so bad but i cant go through long distance again. So a few days ago she told me she is dating someone now and i guess i feel like im not man enough to stay with her. So i told her that we shouldn't talk anymore. I wanted a clean break because if i kept on talking to her my feelings will always be there. The way i see it maybe when im older and more mature we'll hook up again one day.
     
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    couldn't they be one in the same?
     
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    yea i guess so.

     
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    Yes. I try not to think about it, because you'll spend all your time wondering "what if" instead of trying for the next possiblity.
     
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    I believe that everythin happens for a reason.....if they got away, so be it.
     
  15. Lad

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    I believe that if you let them, then there can be one. But in my case, I found the one and didnt let her get away. I would have waited patiently till whenever I needed, because I dont want any stories of the one who got away.
     
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    i've had that, but u just find someone later. and it's always better. i guess it's an experience that everyone goes through. part of life. better to live thru it than not knowing anything eh.
     
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  18. Lad

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    I dunno if I think that phrase is true.... "Its better to have loved and lost then not to love at all...." I dunno bout that. I think it sucks lol.
     
  19. AmCo

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    i hate that quote too but its so true. You want to take every chance you can get.

     
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    One so far, and I hope no others!
     
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    it obviously was not meant to be...why work your self up over something that just didn't workout...trust me not worth it...
     
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    1 so far. Not because it was something that I did, but because she couldn't bring up enough courage to reciprocate my advances. After a couple months of trying I stopped and she called up out of no where asking to meet. Apparently she had to move a state over and only then could she bring up courage to come see me and she had to leave :( We bumped uglies that night..
     
  23. Lad

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    I would hate it too, but it aint happening. lol.
     
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    I believe in it.

    There was a girl, we had the most amazing connection ever, I couldn't stop thinking about her, I would wake up in the middle of the night with her on my mind.

    But, I "pussied out" due to how nervous I was around her, knowing how much I would be losing if I messed up and ruined it all. That counter acted, and she is now with someone else.

    Fuck.
     
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    two....the 2nd one 2wks ago
     

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