SRS Do you believe in love at first sight?

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  1. kylio27

    kylio27 New Member

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    If your refer to my prior post, alot of comments were given and many concepts went through my head as my mind became forced to remember the first time I laid eyes on "that" girl. I was just wondering if any of you out there have actually had the sensation of "love" at first sight.
     
  2. Ford4Life

    Ford4Life Guest

    No. The initial feeling is mostly just sexual attraction and infatuation.

    You need to know someone to really fall in love with them.
     
  3. kylio27

    kylio27 New Member

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    I understand

    But when i first looked at this girl i was mesmerized, it wasnt till after i felt i loved her
     
  4. Kafka

    Kafka New Member

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    Yes, son
     
  5. Ford4Life

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    How old are you?
     
  6. kylio27

    kylio27 New Member

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    what does it matter?
     
  7. Ford4Life

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    Because I asked, how old are you?
     
  8. kylio27

    kylio27 New Member

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    What business is it of yours?......Friendo
     
  9. Ford4Life

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    Nevermind

    Moderator: Please don't provoke him.
     
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  10. kylio27

    kylio27 New Member

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    im just buggin lol.......im 18
     
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  11. Kafka

    Kafka New Member

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    he's not your friend, guy.
     
  12. Ford4Life

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    That means you are an adult. The girl you are talking about is 13 years old. Do you realize how sick that is? I am being 100% serious, it's not normal for someone your age to have "feelings" for a 13 year old girl. At a minimum you sound infautated with her, which leads to other things. I think you need to stay away from her, or you are going to get yourself into a lot of very serious problems.

    Get interested in girls your own age, and ones you won't spend 30 years in prison for.
     
  13. Kafka

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    lol ouch
     
  14. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Only the young and/or naive believe in that.
     
  15. deusexaethera

    deusexaethera OT Supporter

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    I believe in attraction at first sight (obviously), but love is knowing your life is better because someone else is in it, and wanting to return the favor, which is impossible at first sight. All that can really happen is you might find out later that your imagination was right about what the other person is like.
     
  16. MissKitty

    MissKitty If squats were easy they'd be called 'Your Mum' OT Supporter

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    No. To love someone is something you can't achieve until you know them.

    That said, I do recall doing a double take on my husband. If it were someone else I wouldn't have given him the time of day but something inside me said "Hmm, I want to get to know him. He's a bit of alright". And it wasn't just about the looks department.

    I can't really explain it, but I had a brain snap in my head and normally I would have looked and kept looking about I was forced to stop, stare and think.
     
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    Love and infatuation are the same chemicals being released I believe so yes. God I'm such a downer. Not that I don't believe in love as some real connection because the chemicals wear off after about 3 years I think. And many couples are still in love after that. It's just more authentic then.
     
  18. METALLlC BLUE

    METALLlC BLUE New Member

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    No no, you're absolutely on the right track. All human bonding is biological.
     
  19. disley

    disley Ooooh no it isn't. Ooooh yes it is. OT Supporter

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    I don't know about love at first sight, but it's easy to know if you're compatible with someone, and if you take it from there, you'll know if you're going to make it together.
    Lasting love grows out of friendship and respect.
     
  20. Bacardi 151

    Bacardi 151 New Member

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    Yes, I believe in it. I do believe it has to do with biological and chemical factors though. :dunno:
     
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    Absolutely no poll? :wtc:
     
  22. disley

    disley Ooooh no it isn't. Ooooh yes it is. OT Supporter

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    Love needs trust, there's no true love if you can't trust your partner, and equally importantly yourself.
    Show me a jealous man and you see a man who can't be trusted, so he can't trust anyone else.
     
  23. Crawling Dead

    Crawling Dead Gz-TeRRoR

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    I like your new AV MissKitty but your old one was better.

    As far as the topic goes, we live in a new day and age of computers and internet dating. Now a days its completely possible to get to know someone and trust them, possibly even love someone before you even meet them.

    I dont know if i really even believe in that. I still believe you have to actually physically see a person, hang out with them in a physical sense to actually know what that person is like. Someone could be 100% honest on the internet, but even with that if you go and actually meet them, they might not be the person you actually want to be with.
     
  24. Spaceering

    Spaceering I bite.

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    repost.


    it is called lust at first sight in my book
     
  25. Sgt. Friday

    Sgt. Friday Guest

    attraction, or infatuation maybe
     

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