I know you've got to have so-so sex to appreciate mind-blowing fucking, but do any other FSers ever have bad sex? Is it usually with a long-term partner, or one-nighter? How do you remedy the situation at the time? Anyone have suggestions on a man who lacks confidence no matter how much I try to build him up? Who is scared to experiment in bed? Who hasn't got any fantasies - at least none that he shares with you? Who is basically a big, wet, soggy noodle (personality-wise, not in the britches) in bed? Help.