SRS do women look at men when they're interested?

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  1. black jesus

    black jesus OT Supporter

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    I've been hitting on a few more women than this time last year, with 0 success. I noticed today in the gym and at the grocery store...women will not make eye contact with me, or even look at me when I walk by. Is this a dead on indicator that I'm not attractive? I know I'm an angry, evil bastard and women can supposedly pick up on this...but if I'm attractive they should at least notice me when I walk by. At least, the fat ones should. Amirite? I know I'm doing something wrong, but don't know what.

    thanks for listening to me cry like a faggot.
     
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    Maybe you are scary or creepy looking...you should post a pic. Do you have a bad haircut?
     
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    black jesus OT Supporter

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    I have good hair, and I'm in pretty damn good shape. I'm confident that I'm an attractive man.
     
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    Maybe intimidating looking. I don't really know. But women are usually a little more discrete in checking guys out.
     
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    i mean... i don't know if the gym and the grocery store are great places to pay attention to that. when i'm in either of those places i'm mostly focused on what i'm doing, and i rarely even look up if anyone, male or female, walks by.
     
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    Yeh most are there to get there shit done and leave id assume
     
  7. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    I want to see a pic of you, I've read your posts now and am interested.
     
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    Kirbys Autumn Mrs. Kirby McSpic

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  9. black jesus

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    then where am I supposed talk to women? One person says bars, then another says no to bars, then another says the gym or whatever, then you say no to the gym. So what do you recommend? Should I wear a sign that reads, "high, I'm pathetic, just talk to me for 5 minutes then you can go home and and tell your friends about a loser who thought he was good enough to speak to a woman?"
     
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    I only have weight lifting progress pics. I'm pretty much a hermit, so I don't ever engage in social situations where pictures of myself can happen.
     
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    I am too, but there's a hot chick who works there. I usually have my mad face on and headphones blaring...but I was really hoping for some eye contact from the front desk on the way in and out of there.
     
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    those social situations are probably your best bet towards a relationship.
     
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    i didn't say you can't talk to women in those places, i just said not to be put off if they don't look at you... they're probably just not paying attention. if you initiate conversation then who knows? they might be pissed because they want to just do their grocery shopping or they might smile and talk back :dunno: worth a try.
     
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    well, that's an impossibility. Pretty much all of my friends are married, and I'm tired of tagging along.

    I would also really like to not hang out in bars all the time. Its a waste of cash, makes me fat, and I'd rather spend the money I dump on booze at the track.
     
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    But are you confident overall, not just about your looks?
     
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    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Dreams2Reality saywhat

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    See, I think you have a material appearance problem. I know for damn sure I've NEVER had a girl approach me when I have a "mad face" on. Not to mention, hows a girl going to try and spark a conversation with you if you're too busy head rocking to your music?

    Dress prettier, lose the headphones, and walk around with a smile. Speak softer Mr. Strong Man.

    I'm an average size guy, not too muscular, not fat.. but I can assure you, it's more of how you present yourself as opposed to how your looks present you.
     
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    not in the gym...lol.
     
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    Dreams2Reality saywhat

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    I'm referring to your girl in the grocery store.
     
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    I'm an adult. I don't walk around with headphones on.
     
  21. DiggityDogg

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    That could mean a million things, and the only sure thing I am learning from this is that you are over-analyzing.
     
  22. black jesus

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    lol...I'm an analyst professionally, and I have a lot of time on my hands.
     
  23. Dysfnctnl85

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    When I'm at the gym, I'd rather not hear "OMG I got sooooooo wasted last night, tee-hee" so I almost always have my headphones on unless I'm anticipating speaking to someone. Again, this is only at the gym.

    I'm interested to see ways of initiating conversation with someone, like me, who wears headphones.

    I see this hottie at the gym everytime I'm there but have yet to come up with an interesting way of initiating conversation. It's almost like when George dates the girl who's deaf in one ear, you know? You run the risk of saying something and not getting a response. I honestly want to know if she has beaten up any of her past boyfriends...she's very toned. And hot. And yeah.
     
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    i bet you always walk around with a scowl.


    you're attractive enough, but everyone is going to avoid someone who makes them uncomfortable, and your anger is such a thing.
     
  25. Striker22

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    She is on the clock, so keep it in mind that her actions are limited. Give eye contact when she is in a standing position, and intiaite something(i.e. weather, hows your day, anything related to the atmosphere your in. Dont ask her if she goes to the gym if she is at the front desk of a grocery store helping a customer :rofl:) She wont acknowledge you if you give her a "simple passing glance". She sees way too many people each day at work for her to give a shit i bet. It may take a few times of you in there to grant her attention. If she gives you a ":ugh:" .. you may want to let off a bit :rofl:
     

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