Do women get dryer with age

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  1. hyper

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    I'm seeing someone in their mid 30s, and sometimes 30 min into sex it will start to get dry. She was telling me that older women just don't get as wet. Is this true? If so whats the scale and what do you do about it? Is more lube appropriate or should we be shooting to end sooner?
     
  2. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    It's pretty well known (at least I thought) that the older a woman gets the more she tends to "dry up." Though obviously not every woman dries up. I don't talk to many older women but assuming they all become dry eventually is the equivalent of thinking every man becomes impotent in older age.

    The other thing is does she take birth control or any antibiotics that you know of? It is sometimes common for them to make women more dry.

    Either way, buy some lube and make sure to pleasure her before just sticking it in. 30 minutes is actually above average in length of sex. If you are focusing on just yourself during sex and are not tuned into how excited she is she is bound to get dry regardless of age.
     
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    Drink plenty of water.
     
  4. Drifter87

    Drifter87 Yippi-kay-ay, Motherfucker

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    I have to agree on this one.
     
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    Ummm... usually by "older" they mean pre/menopausal but some meds will do it too.
     
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    never been an issue for my girl who is 34
     
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    menopausal = old
     
  8. fray

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    after 30 minutes I get dry too.... if she's wet to begin with, it may just be that she doesn't have the "endurance" to be wet for an hour on end.
     
  9. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    :werd: Has happened to me and I'm not even near 30
     
  10. hyper

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    Yeah I was a bit concerned I just wasn't getting her to finish fast enough. The water is an interesting thing, we normally are drinking a fair amount of liquor before hand. I assume that dehydrates you alot, you notice that comes into play also?
     
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    drinking more if she's already adequately hydrated probably won't make a huge difference, but if she's not getting enough water it may help.
     
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    Just use lube and don't worry about it. 30 minutes is a long time sometimes. How does she feel about it? Does she want to finish sooner, or does she not care? Is she too dry to continue? Does it bother her? There's no shame in needing to grab some lube, so why don't you just talk to her and she what her thoughts are on the length of activities?
     
  13. hyper

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    She said she didn't notice, but for me it was just getting a bit dry for my taste and I usually stop. Yeah I guess there is no reason to not just use more lube.
     
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    you could always stop for a bit and just go down on her for a while or something.
     
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    LBFilmGuy LOL why u mad tho?

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    I hear anything past 15 usually gets uncomfortable/painful...I'm sure it just depends on the girl :dunno:
     
  16. Falconer

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    For some reason this question made me think of the Manowar lyrics from the song "Hail and Kill":

    "May your sword stay wet, like a young girl in her prime"

    :mamoru:
     
  17. BATMANs

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    it's similar to men not being a spring chicken down there when they start to hit their 30's.

    Goes both ways in different ways.

    This is another reason why uncut > cut....
     
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    :ugh: What?
     
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    I'm confused.. you drink a lot of booze before hand, but she goes dry.

    I thought booze was a lubricant to most women :rofl:

    seriously, just crack the KY when needed
     
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    A lot of women aren't able to produce as much lube as normal when after they've had a lot to drink.
     
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    I was thinking/joking more along the lines of alcohol getting them to that point where their panties are on the floor and their legs are over their heads :naughty:
     
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    extra skin is like a roller bearing.

    less lube is needed.
     

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