Do women ever get friendzoned?

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  1. Toxica

    Toxica New Member

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    I always read about how guys talk to girls and end up in the "friendzone". However, I never really read about how a girl ends up in the "friendzone" from talking to a guy.

    So this question is for the guys... have you ever had a crush on a girl and then put her in a "friendzone" and now wouldn't date nor fuck her if given the chance?

    (and I'm not talking about ex-girlfriends either. Just women that you have met and got along with)
     
  2. zmiller91

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    more than one friend.
     
  3. GammaRadiation

    GammaRadiation Active Member

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    YES!

    But not in the same way. Generally it's not because of her own shyness or bad circumstances, like it is often with guys. More often I see it happen because she simply isnt girlfriend material to the guy. As stated above, too much baggage, toe stepping in classes or work, too much crazy, friend issues.

    I have a weird issue when I meet a new group of girls. If I dont start "talking" to one of the girls I am most attracted to, even if they are all attractive, I will not date any of them. Why? Well I'll end up being around girls who I had a predisposed notion that they are more attractive than the girl I am with. Also, the girl who I am more attracted to will often flirt and invite me to come hang so that I'll be around her other friend(s) who are attracted to me. At that point I step away and become just friends with all of them.
     
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  4. JordanClarkson

    JordanClarkson OT Supporter

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    Most girls give up when it's obvious that the guy isn't interested. Some will even give up prematurely for fear of rejection. So less girls than guys find themselves in the friend zone because they move on quickly.
     
  5. Diesel66

    Diesel66 My standards for women is like rent-a-centers stan OT Supporter

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    But i'd more than likely just push her completely away instead of hanging out.
     
  6. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    :rofl: Oh yeah. I used to get friendzoned in my teens for so long. This is because I was such a tomboy that all the guys I knew really did just see me as "one of the guys" and none of them wanted to date me. When I got a little bit older and out of my baggy jeans/skater phase they realized I had breasts and an ass and suddenly took notice :mamoru:
     
  7. Falconer

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    I have friendzoned girls before.

    Girls that were attracted to me but I was not attracted to them sexually. I only talked to/hung out with them for intellectual stimulation.

    Unlike everyone in the main forum, I won't fuck any chick just because she wants it. Pussy is not pussy. She has to be hot.
     
  8. blackrat

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    Yeah, it takes a lot less drinks to do so. ;)
     
  9. Falconer

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    How to get out of the friendzone:

    For girls: become more attractive

    For men (pick one or more of the following): get forearm tattoos, a motorcycle, form a band, become a CEO, or get other attractive women to show interest in you around the girl who had friendzoned you


    Much simpler for men :mamoru:
     
  10. Drifter87

    Drifter87 Yippi-kay-ay, Motherfucker

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    Yup, I have some female friends that I have friendzoned. This may sound cruel, but if I ever want it and I can't find it, I can go to them and they will give it up easily.
     
  11. Ideotique

    Ideotique Drinking on monday nights does not make me an alco

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    Yep.

    Friends sister. Friendzoned her bigtime. I've known her for years and years and years and just did not feel comfortable with her.

    Also friendzoned other people who made it clear they were interested in me because I wasn't interested in them. I don't jump at anything with a pulse. There needs to be some level of connection
     
  12. hungraa

    hungraa New Member

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    true girls move on way easier
     
  13. eightvalve

    eightvalve Reformed Lurker Crew #1

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    fixed
     
  14. 6_x_7_=_42

    6_x_7_=_42 its just that simple.

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    i always get fucking friendzoned....... fuck.
     
  15. Falconer

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    No. My original statement was based on the fact that men only fuck women to whom they are physically attracted.

    If all a woman has to do is touch your penis, then her looks don't matter, and you're automatically excluded from the group of people to whom my original statement applied (guys who only fuck women to whom they are physically attracted).

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  16. Diesel66

    Diesel66 My standards for women is like rent-a-centers stan OT Supporter

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    It still applies though. You friendzone a girl for whatever other reason (crazy, drama, etc....) but she grabs your junk. game over.
     
  17. skych

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    :mamoru: yah but not as often
     
  18. _KC

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    Nah. I only purse major conversation if its a potential fuck
     
  19. blackrat

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    If she's even reasonably attractive, a few drinks in you to lower your guard and her hand in your crotch is all it takes. At the very least, you'll have a lot harder time turning it down.
     
  20. Maffy29

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    I friendzoned this girl once. After we went Christmas shopping, out for a chinese dinner 40 minutes away and had on-the-glass seats at an ECHL hockey game. She wasn't too pleased.
     
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    Fat girls get friendzoned by guys all the time.

    That's because a fat girl is the female equivalent of the "nice guy."

    There is one girl in my life right now who is actually pretty good looking, who actually friendzoned ME about a year and a half ago, so I cut contact with her. I just recently saw her a couple different times out and about and she keeps giving me her number to call her, keeps calling me, etc. and I ignroe it.
     
  22. victimizati0n

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    yup i have
     
  23. kiri

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    i've had several guy friends where we are both pretty good looking, nice people, but we're like "oh jesus fuck i could never date you :rofl:"

    i suppose in that case it's a mutual friendzone. there are also guys i know who probably would date me but i wouldn't want to, so i guess that would make them friendzoned.

    i think in high school i was probably friendzoned (not mutually) by most guys i knew cause i was pretty ugly :o
     
  24. ForgottenSpiral

    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    :werd: I friendzone the fatties.
     
  25. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    :rofl: Why? I already was well aware why I got friendzoned :dunno:
     

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