SRS Do people survive mutual "breaks" b/c we're about to take one

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  1. scirio

    scirio Active Member

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    GF of 5 1/2 yrs and I decided we need some space due to conflicting interest. I'm very loyal never cheated, maybe I just dont act romantic anymore but I love her completely. She has said she hasnt cheated and theres no one else. we moved in together 1.5 yrs ago and you know how that can be. Do people survive temp breaks? :dunno:
     
  2. Cr0mulent

    Cr0mulent Werewolf: The Last Warrior

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    im in the same boat. my girlfriend said she wanted to move out last night. she said im not romantic enough anymore. its pretty much the same situation as yours. i think that at this point the relationship wont continue.
     
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    wont continue for you or for me?
     
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    think about WHY she wants the break. To stop seeing you.

    Now, rethink the question and consider what it means to want to stop seeing you anymore. To be free of you.

    There doesn't have to be another guy, in order to want to be free of you.
    Often times there is another guy... But not always.


    Its actually worse if there isn't another guy. That usually means she not just distracted or unsure... rather, she's well and truly TIRED OF YOU. Not always...but usually.

    So now, think again what your question is really asking.

    sorry... you'll get over it.
     
  5. big 1

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    time for you to step up the bat and give her what shes missing before she starts looking elsewhere. I mean, give her the romance and the passion that she is seeking. Perhaps youll rekindle eachothers love
     
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    Typically correct.

    Sorry to hear about your loss. Relationships are something that some people can do and some cannot. Its not about what you did or did not do, what you messed up on and what you didn't, but the experience, the life of it.

    Use what you know and when the next "one" comes along, be a little more wise in how you act. Romance antics are always sweet but also remember to keep things fresh.

    You will survive.
     
  7. CPipes

    CPipes Shit definitely just got real!! OT Supporter

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    Good answer
     

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