For some that may not remember Im going through a divorce and in two weeks we have the mediation to settle things and then its over. Recently I have severely regressed I am sure based on the upcoming event and I have been going through this stage of getting rid of as much crap as possible. Tonight I came a across a folder in the closet with all the love letters and things of that nature. I did not want the marriage to end, she gave up. Do I throw all these things out or keep them to look back on in the future? Do I mail all of them back to her? Am I over thinking things?