Do I have the right to be upset?

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  1. dumbaznboy

    dumbaznboy New Member

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    So I asked a friend of mine to be my date to my companys party. She agrees and we talk about logistics of the night. Being that it's open bar I figured getting a hotel room would be a good idea becuase there's no way either of us would be able to drive home. I tell her this and the first thing she says is "let's get things straight...I'm not going back to the room with you". I'm more than okay with that as if I wanted easy ass I'd have asked others.

    My first thought was "WTF thought she knew me better than that...as I'd never pull a stunt like that on a friend".

    Then later I realized I shoulndt have taken it personally...she's a girl and she just be straight up about it and looking after herself.

    But yea...I'm over it now but it bugged me that I got upset over it in the first place.

    Thoughts?
     
  2. Reign

    Reign Banned

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    So... you answered your own question...
     
  3. MossMan813

    MossMan813 New Member

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    I doubt you asked her to be your date but yet hooking up never crossed your mind. Regardless, asking someone to be your date and then suggesting you get a hotel room really only points to one thing. If you didn't say that as bait to see what she might think of hooking up (right), then understand it sounded like that and don't blame her for telling you straight up she's not interested in that. I'm sure she wanted to be very clear before she got herself in a bad situation.
     
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    jonno New Member

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    what'd you expect her to think?
     
  5. KindlyCuddly

    KindlyCuddly Irina Lazareanu

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    she probably did not want to lead you on :dunno:
     
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    roddick New Member

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    I dont understand why you would be upset and yea, with how you explained it, how else would she have taken it.
     
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    WTF you should be fucking happy she was so upfront from the get go. At least you knew you weren't spending money on a room with false hopes of getting some ass.

    Amen to her.
     
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    dumbaznboy New Member

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    -sigh-

    had a bunch of replied typed. and hit back. all gone.

    Folks, please understand one thing. I did not expect or want to get ass from this girl. And I also said I understood why a girl would be up front about things. A RANDOM GIRL or acquaintance. She is neither of these; I have known her for the past 6 years.

    And either people aren't reading the entire post or have reading comp problems; but my point was - I was irked at the fact that I got upset when I understood the reason. I just felt like she should have known be better as a friend.

    Thanks for reading and not really understanding.

    Mods, lock this thread please. It's done.
     
  9. Bob Brown

    Bob Brown bewshit, bewshit, bewshit

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    hahahaha just realized your screenname fits the thread.
     
  10. Donatello

    Donatello o_O OT Supporter

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    should've said "WITH separate beds" and the night of be like "oh no...they got us a king instead"
     
  11. dumbaznboy

    dumbaznboy New Member

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    haha. yea. it does doesnt it.

    and no, i wouldnt do that. (say two twin and tell only king).
     
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    just_another_on New Member

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    So, you just wanted attention?

    offtopic.com/blogspot/dumbaznboy
     
  13. ForgottenSpiral

    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    The more important question is... why would you invite a woman you have no interest in banging?
     
  14. Midgetized

    Midgetized Don't mess with Douche Cat

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    How would she know that? Guys try to hook up with girls they've been friends with for awhile all the time... I don't care how long I've been friends with a guy, if he wants to get trashed and then get a hotel room together then I would assume he's looking to get laid unless he says otherwise.
     
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    I know the answer ! pick me !

    because he did not have anyone else to take !
     

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