Bit of wall of text and im actually texting the girl right now still trying to work things out. Ok so i met this girl through one of my mates who is good friends with her. He brought her over my place we chilled etc. eventually decided that we both been through some bad relationships so the idea of "cuddle buddies" came about. basically to just be a nice companion for each other while single because it gets lonely. only known her about a week or so now. so we tried to organize hanging out again because she lives pretty far away. And i had to cancel on her because of something and she got real upset so i said some things to make her feel better etc. So any way tonight she tells me she likes me. now shes had some bad runs with guys usually she says she likes them than they freak out and dont talk to her again. i basically had to tell her that i dont want the relationship thing atm etc etc. she got really upset crying etc. ended up saying im just like all the other guys etc. i was really nice about, well tried to be. said i wanna keep being her friend cause i do like her but i went into this without the relationship mindset at all. Now neither me or her know what to do with the situation because she doesnt want to talk to me and like me more but she doesnt wanna lose me i want to keep talking to her. Does this kinda arrangement ever work out or is it always doomed? Cliffs: me and girl friends with benefits she gets feelings for me i have them back but dont want relationship just want companionship a bit. shes upset and now we dont know what to do.