LGBT Do gay men/ lesbians flirt with the opposite sex?

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  1. ArthurPewty

    ArthurPewty New Member

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    Sorry if this has come up before, I'm new. I had been thinking about this recently. I had suspected that a friend of mine in school was flirting with me, but then I found out she was a lesbian. Then I thought that maybe she was being flirtatious because flirting is such a social convention in our society and isn't always used to arouse another person's interest, but can be used in other contexts.

    So do gay men flirt with women and lesbians with men?
     
  2. suckmyexhaust

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    For the attention, yes. [since I can be an attention whore]
     
  3. Priest Tango

    Priest Tango Custom User Tits

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    i flirt with the ladeez all the time :naughty: (but it doesnt go very far, since im not a good flirter :()
     
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    :werd: same here
    its not that I flirt with everyone but you know...the attitude that makes ppl feel important :o
     
  5. ArthurPewty

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    I figured that flirting, even between a straight man and straight woman, can just be about having fun and not serious. That's why I was curious.
     
  6. Carrots

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    I know gay men who flirt with women more aggressively than straight men do. It's a joke, of course, but they can say things that straight guys would get slapped for, since everyone knows that they aren't really interested.

    And lots of people flirt unintentionally with everyone, regardless of orientation.
     
  7. Sam Gamgee

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    I do it all the time... I'll flirt with anyone...
     
  8. XPX

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    I playfully flirt with the women so often that some of my guy friends think I'm faking teh ghey to get the women.
     
  10. CoCo

    CoCo ...is a Queer Don!! OT Supporter

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    CoCo ...is a Queer Don!! OT Supporter

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    I flirt with everyone.
     
  12. XPX

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    He flirts with guys but he is not gay, that part confused me....
    but now I don't care =)
     
  13. GND

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    Gays do it more than Lezzies at least among my friends. :mamoru:

    I flirt with everyone, but then of course I'm just "confused" or "greedy"
     
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    I flirt with men but alot of that is just my personality. I don't do it to get anything out of it. But then again I will also flirt with women just as much.
     
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    It drives me nuts when straight boys flirt with me... but it's fun to flirt right back.

    With the ladies? Yeah, I do sometimes. It is fun to say things that most straight guys wouldn't be able to get away with. :mamoru:
     
  16. XPX

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    straight boys flirt with you?

    damn

    50% of the road is paved then :mamoru:
     
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    "Str8" quote unquote. :big grin:
     
  18. XPX

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    Oh I see....he has a pretty walk in closet then :mamoru:
     
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    yeah... denial is a bitch, eh? :greddy2:
     
  20. ArthurPewty

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    I figured that personality had something to do with it too as there are straight folks who just aren't flirty with the opposite sex.
     
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    I am really just talkative and flirty with everyone. I can walk into a room of strangers and know something about all of them by the end of the night. My GF just laughs at me because i can talk to anyone, and come away knowing something personal about them in a 5/10 mins conversation.
     
  23. spiffy_badrock

    spiffy_badrock I'm sorry, if you were right, I'd agree with you.

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    I flirt-ish. I actually end up flirting more with girls than guys, and ive had girls be like "hey wanna hang out sometime, or hey wanna come back to my place for a drink" and Im like "um...thanks but...." . I just dont flirt with guys because of my location, too many metro-straights that get all pissy if a gay man hits on them.
     
  24. XPX

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    after seeing certain video now I understand why gay people love the straight-->gay conversion thing... :o
     
  25. Fate13

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    I can’t flirt worth a damn in real life with men :wtc: , but I flirt with my female friends all the time. It is fun to get away with stuff that most str8 guys can’t! I found out that I am a big flirt online though... with both genders.
     

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