are you thinking?? Sooo, the NYTimes ran an article on this about late last year, and even after being in a relationship with some low-level DL men (as in, they were NOT past that 'can't change them' threshold, and were not high risk), I must say that I don't like you people! I mean, being Queer has its ups and downs, but why would one want to live so high risk? MTV's Expose on DL Culture & Community showed the extreme of this way of life—a total disrespect of health and one's life, as the DL men just interfuck unprotected and then brought everything back to their homes, wives, and children. I think this horrific, and was curious if anyone had any experiences with such men?