I've been a tenant of my aunt for over three years now. She has six boys, one of whom was the one who bought the house and rented it out (he had her be the landlord). Last year he got married and moved out, and one of the other ones moved in. This one (Dan) is an asshole. He continually insults me and my family, because we arent as wealthy as his family. He works out of town, so he comes back a couple of times a month, messes up the place, doesn't clean up, and then tells his mom (my landlord) that we're trashing the place and its a mess. Due to this, she's given us (me and my roomate) notice to move out. He came back today, and walked around the house with his shoes on, tracking mud all over the place. I came home to a mudcovered house. When he came in tonight, I confronted him, and he told me i'd have to fight him if I wanted him to clean it up. I called my aunt, and she told me it was too dirty for him to take his shoes off, and effectively gave him permission to continue. Meanwhile, he continues to get more belligerent, secure in the knowledge that I wont beat him up because he's my cousin, and then tells me to go to my room because he wants to watch a movie with Max (my roomate). He then tells me that my dad is trash, and I'm just like him, and that he's glad I'm gone. I figure that my best recourse here is to tell my aunt that I will not be attending any functions where he will be present, and that since he got these ideas about my dad and my family from somewhere, that I must consider that they hold the same opinion of myself and my family, and that I do not wish to continue associating with people who think of myself such. This comes at an especially frustrating time, as I recently went back to where I used to live as a kid, and ran into a bunch of people I used to know, all of which have degenerated (theyre now into drugs, drunks, etc), so I closed that book of my life also last night.