LGBT dirty looks from other gays, anybody?

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  1. coma

    coma New Member

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    Does anybody else get contemptuous looks from other faggots? I get them quite often, from total (queer) strangers on the street or other queers with whom I come in contact such as at work or the place where I get my daily coffee, etc. They just stare and give me a nasty look as if they are totally disgusted with me or something like that. In fact, there's this one queer (he's out) at work who refuses to speak to me and won't even ackowldege my presence. I couldn't care less about him, but thinking about it and seeing his reaction to me is rather humours in a way. I'm thinking that they look at me and see a gay guy (their refelection) and that they in reality hate themselves.
     
  2. cedric

    cedric I don't have a contract

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    :dunno: My gaydar sucks. I can't tell if someone's gay unless they're flaming. Likewise, nobody can tell that I'm gay either so, so I can't say that I've had that experience. Did you do something to make them look at you like that?
     
  3. coma

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    No, absolutely not, that's why it's so mysterious. I look and act as straight as possible, and no I don't leer at them either.
     
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    Actually...the other day, I was walking in Chelsea and I saw this incredibly handsome man walking along side me, also with long hair.

    So we both had it in pony tails, except my hair was in a bandana as well...he was tall, dark, slim, tight white t with light blue linen pants...very gay...

    I asked him, as we were walking, in a polite manner "Hey, we have the same hair-type...what do you do with it when it's not in a pony tail?"

    and he tilted his glasses down at me, and in the most condenscending fashion said "I DON'T"

    and in a snap walked away from me.

    I felt like I did or said something wrong...it was a disgusting look, and an even shittier attitude. I wasn't looking for anything...just wanted to know what he does with his hair...

    fucking asshole!
     
  5. CoCo

    CoCo ...is a Queer Don!! OT Supporter

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    Contemptuous fags suck…in every way!

    But no, usually when I notice other fags doing that, it’s because they are appraising your queer worth against their own queer worth (usual scale takes into account sassiness, physical hotness, gay sheik-ness, overall fashion, projected SES, number of fruit flies (good or bad depending on their hotness), and assumed personality…). If you get a better queer score—and therefore better—than they, you get a snooty look. It sucks, but that’s how some of us are.
     
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    suckmyexhaust New Member

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    The best had to have been when I was in a club and this one guy I walked pass murmered to his friends "His cock most likely smells like fish..." I turned around and stated it shouldn't because I was pounding his boyfriends ass while he was on vacation.

    Sorry Charlie, you loose!!!
     
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    CoCo ...is a Queer Don!! OT Supporter

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  8. RedGoober4Life

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    I don't meet other gay people very often. At least I don't think. I don't know. So I don't get bad looks.

    Mamoru, I'll be your friend--even if I don't know what my hair is doing half the time. Hahahehe.

    Although there is the one fag hag friend that had a graduation party that I went to. Of course she tells all her friend's who is gay (I don't hang around her very much, I don't like hags...). Anyway, the gay ones gave me bad looks. I must not be good enough to be gay. Hahhaha. Oh well. :(
     
  9. GND

    GND BBP! OT Supporter

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    That sucks. It sounds like they have this idea of you "selling out" or something b/c you don't "look gay" or "act gay" :rolleyes: whatever that's suppose to mean. Like you're a walking stereotype or something. :sad2:

    I can relate b/c in the past and even now people are like.. "you don't sound black"...etc. :wtf:

    It's bull! I can see how all that can get very annoying.
     
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    :ugh: people. :ugh:
     
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    NOVAJock Modded & Underrated

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    Yeah I've gotten used to it. I look at as they're just a bunch of jealous queens. :o
     
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