Dilemma w/ what to do

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  1. -=Likwid=-

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    An old friend of mine got married about a year ago, and is now getting divorced/seperated/whatev. I heard that he was cheated on, but don't know how reliable the information is... but I won't press on the topic for the source.

    Should i let my friend know; or should i leave it be, given that they're splitting up anyway? I'm inclined to stfu about it because they're splitting up, and i've made the promise of silence, but he deserves to know...

    any thoughts would be great.
     
  2. Leb_CRX

    Leb_CRX OT's resident terrorist

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    I'd tell him straight up face to face...I'd tell him that's what I heard, and I figured I wanted to let him know so he's aware

    I mean if they're splitting, it dont make a diff, but as a friend IMO you have a responsibility to him
     
  3. BlazinBlazer Guy

    BlazinBlazer Guy Witness to The De-Evolution of Mankind.

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    Actually it might matter.... if she was cheating on him, that could play to his advantage in any divorce court proceedings. The judge won't take away as much of his shit to give to the wife if she was whoring it up on the side.
     
  4. Bleed

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    Yeah, it will give him leverage in the divorce.
     
  5. -=Likwid=-

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    he'd need proof of it wouldn't he?

    and i wouldn't be able to tell him face to face as he's left the country :(
     
  6. Spaulding Smails

    Spaulding Smails Real Estate Guru

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    Depends on the source.... Could be why they are breaking up. Could just be rumor and guess... If he's your good friend, you he would probably confide in you the reason for the seperation, and you could mention your tidbit for the hell of it....

    I wouldn't go out of my way to twist the knife in his back though....
     
  7. micks

    micks the snausage wallet OT Supporter

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    Tell him what u heard straight up and explain that you don't know whether it's true or not.
     
  8. gookarachie

    gookarachie New Member

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    If this guy is your friend you need to tell him. Even though they are getting a divorce he deserves to know.

    This may ruin your friendship with him later on down the road. If he finds out that you knew and didn't tell him do you think that he will still think of you as a good friend. I wouldn't.
     
  9. Leb_CRX

    Leb_CRX OT's resident terrorist

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    yep...

    '-=Likwid=- from OT told me your honor' won't cut it :o
     
  10. kronik85

    kronik85 New Member

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    yea, would need some proof, more than just "i heard u got cheated on"
     
  11. -=Likwid=-

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    well my source tells me that she heard from the cheater; which is plausable.
     
  12. AstroGirl

    AstroGirl If I don't respond it's because I have severe ADD

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    I would tell him. If the roles were reversed wouldn't you want to know? Don't tell him straight out, and that you know this for a fact, but just say you heard.
     
  13. RickyP

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    yea so, i've been a member for a little while now, and i never post, i just like to read, but this is one area were i know a little....

    if your his friend you will tell him, even if he doesn't believe you, or whatever, in the end you can always say you told him everything you knew
     

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